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African-American Fashion Designers You May Not Know

2011-09-20T15:05:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

In the fashion industry it might seem like there’s a lack of fashion designers that are African American. Well, there are a few designers who are on the fast track to fame or may already be there.

Laquan Smith

Laquan Smith, 23, started his self-titled designer brand in 2008. He started off designing custom pieces for celebrities such as: Lady Gaga, Rihanna, Cassie, Beyonce, Alicia Keys, and the infamous top model Tyra Banks. He made his New York Fashion Week debut on February 15, 2010, having fashion greats in the audience including Vogue’s ex Editor-at-Large Andre Leon Talley. Laquan is definitely on the fast track to fame and will definitely be the designer everybody is talking about. You can check out his stuff at: http://laquansmith.com/

Patrick Robinson

Patrick Robinson was most known for being the executive vice president of Gap Global Design for Adult and Body. He has also worked for Giorgio Armani, Anne Klein, Perry Ellis, and Paco Rabanne. Patrick is a designer that is known for being behind the scenes, but he definitely has a lot of respect in the industry.

Maya Amina Lake

Maya Amina Lake is the designer of the clothing line Boxing Kitten. This small, but well known clothing line is known for its African print clothing and bright colored dresses. Maya already has a big celebrity following, having Beyonce, Alicia Keys, Rihanna, Solange Knowles, Fergie, and Erykah Badu wearing her clothing. Her clothing has also been seen in publications such as The New York Times, Teen Vogue, and Arise. She is a designer that is definitely on the fast track to fame. You can check out the Maya’s line Boxing Kitten at http://boxingkitten.com/.

Review of John Ruffin's Play "All My Single Ladies"

2011-09-19T13:06:00.000-07:00

By Samantha Battle

John Ruffin’s “All My Single Ladies” play brought out a packed crowd at the opening night of the two-day showing of his new play starring Darrin Dewitt Henson from HBO’s Soul Food and Stomp the Yard, Anthony Grant, gospel recording artist DeWayne Woods, actress Trisha Mann, Richard Gallion and actor Chris Bolten. The play was performed at the Harold Washington Cultural Center in Chicago.

Ruffin’s play was separated into two acts focusing on the lives of two women who were dealing with relationship problems and finding the right one.

One woman, Kimberly, played by Melinda Bussie, was dealing with the decision of whether or not she should leave or stay in the relationship she’s in, even though it’s not a healthy one with her abusive boyfriend, Raymond, played by Darrin. She has two kids with him and is trying to get her GED so that she can get a job and won’t have to depend on Raymond anymore.

“I think they [the audience] will love and hate my character in the play,” said Darrin. “He’s a very dark person with a huge ego who can be disrespectful physically and verbally at times, but I think the interesting part about him is why he does it, so I think that’s what we’re going to be diving into more with my character—to find out why he’s that way.”

The other woman, Regina, played by Tashika Benson, was dealing with the total opposite, being single, alone and living with lupus. Then the love of her life from five years ago, Eric, played by Richard Gallion, shows up back into her life wanting a second chance, even though he broke up with her. And while all of this is going on, Frasier, played by Anthony Grant, is a man who likes her, wants to treat her right and is right under her nose, yet she doesn’t realize it until towards the end of the play.

“This is a story about relationships, and it’s a story that tells you why there are some single ladies and why there are ladies that probably feel single but aren’t,” said Anthony. “I want people to walk away from this show entertained but coming away with a message that even though you may be by yourself, you’re not alone. I think that people should really focus on the message and have enough courage to just walk away if it’s not for you.”

The audience was filled with laughter and gasps throughout the whole play, and the cast and director received a standing ovation from the crowd.

Women’s Business Development Center Celebrates 25th Anniversary Entrepreneurial Business Conference

2011-09-15T11:36:00.000-07:00

By Iya Bakare

Over 2,000 participants gathered to celebrate the 25^th anniversary of the Women’s Business Development Center and Entrepreneurial Woman’s Conference on Wednesday, September 14 at McCormick Place-West in Chicago. Founders S. Carol Dougal and Hedy M. Rather established the Women’s Business Development Center in 1986 to create business opportunities and promote entrepreneurship for women. Dougal and Ratner also created the Entrepreneurial Woman’s Conference that same year to form a medium where women can both network and celebrate the business successes and accomplishments of one another.

This year’s Entrepreneurial Woman’s Conference featured workshops, roundtable discussions, a business and buyer’s mart and other networking opportunities. In addition, the conference featured the Women’s Forum Breakfast, moderated by the Chicago Sun Times financial expert Terry Savage and the 25^th Anniversary Hall of Fame Awards Luncheon, emceed by NBC Chicago’s Alison Rosati. Panelists on the breakfast forum included Leylani Cardoso of Bolzano Handbags, Maxine Clark of Build-A-Bear Workshop, Cathy Hughes of Radio One and Lynn Tilton of Patriarch Partners. Mayor Rahm Emanuel delivered the keynote address at this year’s Hall of Fame luncheon. Honorees were Teresa Ging of Sugar Bliss Cake Boutique, Inc., Marilyn Jones of Consolidated Printing Company, Sharon Hoffman Avent of Smead Manufacturing Company, Bank of America and U.S. Small Business Administration.

For more information on WBDC, visit www.WBDC.org.

Chicago: I Love You!

2011-09-13T15:46:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

Home is where the heart is but nothing in Cincinnati compares to a beautiful city like Chicago. Now, don't get it confused, I don't want it to seem like I'm betraying my city, but it's the truth! There are so many great things about Chicago. I love the noise. I love the architecture. I love the wind. I love the diversity. However, all those things don't compare to the amount of love I have for the food in this city.

This is definitely the place I want to spend more of my life before I start my adventure on the east coast. I've been going to college in Chicago for four years and during that time, I’ve done a lot of growing up. I started off feeling alone because my family wasn't near, and I wasn’t familiar with my surroundings. I started to make friends once I begin to break out of my shell. I met new people and gained this sort of Mid-western "hauteur." Okay that word is a little strong, but I did increase my confidence being so tiny in such a big city.

It’s the perfect mixture of peace and play; however, I do wish there was more of a vibrant energy toward fashion. It’s very business casual meets street chic (to be cliché). Other than that, I would definitely recommend Chicago to anyone hoping to be blown away, so pack your bags and visit!

Fashion: Breaking ALL of the Rules

2011-09-08T15:48:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

During a casual conversation with a family member, she mentioned that she was wearing white today, which happens to be three days after Labor Day. The first thing that came out of my mouth was, “Why are you wearing white after Labor Day anyway?”

Her reply, “I can wear whatever I want, whenever I want.”

This small interaction got my mind racing. Then, I started to think of all the fashion “rules” that I break, probably on a daily basis. I realized I have the same mentality to some extent. There are still some rules I refuse to break. For those free spirits who wear what they want when they want, I’m sure you’ll agree with most of the following. However, for those who may be a little reluctant to be rebellious, here are a few options to think about if you’re willing to take a risk.

No White After Labor Day

As of late, this rule has become easier and easier to break. With the introduction of “winter” white into the mix, it gives women all over the world an excuse to wear it all year around.

Black/Brown Combo

For some reason, it has been drilled into our brains that wearing black and brown at he same time is a crime of fashion. In most cases, it’s one color or the other. It seems logical to wear a brown belt if you’re wearing brown shoes, right? Depending on the entire look, it could work if you mixed it up a bit. It just depends on how much of a risk you’re willing to take.

Color Crazy

While some may try to pass off wearing any color they want as “color blocking,” it just doesn’t work for everyone. Now, it’s true that we’re all individuals with our own unique style, but “color blocking” is a technique and when it’s done well, the results are visually appealing. So, unless you have the time to put colors together that work for your particular body type, then you might not want to go that route.

Chicago’s Lakefront

2011-09-06T14:37:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

In any city, it's pretty common to have a favorite place to visit. Sometimes it's a specific place like a restaurant or an attraction. However, it can also be some place simple, where there's no price to pay, but the experience it just as much rewarding.

Lake Michigan is probably one of my favorite places in Chicago, and it just so happens that it's a popular past time for those who grew up in the city. I just love standing on the lakefront, staring at the large body of water in front of me. It gives me such peace, it can be romantic, and it can be inspiring to look at (when the weather is nice out). I love going to the lakefront to think and just clear my mind. Just staring out at the water can make you think about how blessed you are to even be able to live in a city like Chicago (despite of some of the challenges the city face). I'm not a native of Chicago, but I think once I’ve been here for awhile, I still wouldn’t be tired of the lake. It’s part of what makes Chicago so special. What’s your favorite place to go to in your hometown?

Fall Fashion Trends

2011-09-01T15:08:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

As we transition from summer to fall, the weather is slowly but surely changing. When the seasons change, our wardrobes tend change as well. So, there may be some people wondering what to wear this fall. Here are a few items and colors you may want to keep in mind.

Cool Colors

Since the weather is getting cooler, bright colors are not such a good idea. In the summer, everything is bright and upbeat, so your wardrobe tends to be the same. In the fall, things tone down a little more and your wardrobe should reflect this change. You can still wear your oranges, yellows, and pinks, but just wear the “toned down” versions of those colors.

Denim

Denim shirts, denim button downs, denim dresses, and denim jackets all are in this fall. Denim jackets are a great necessity. They can be paired with a dress or another look. It’s such an American classic that I can appreciate.

Blazer

A blazer is an essential for anyone. It can turn a regular outfit into a classy one in just a matter of seconds. Any color blazer is good, but my favorite would probably have to be a classic, black blazer. A black blazer can easily go from work to a night out on the town.

So You Think You Can Dance “Hustle Hard” Review

2011-08-30T15:31:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

I don’t usually get a chance to watch Fox’s competition show, So You Think You Can Dance, but I did get to see finalist Tadd Gadduang and Season 4 champion Joshua Allen, perform a choreographed routine to Ace Hood’s “Hustle Hard,” and it blew me away. I think I was for one, impressed by the mixture of masculinity and gracefulness on such an aggressive beat. I also loved how their movements expressed the song and it wasn’t cheesy at all. Performances like that one makes me wonder how anyone couldn’t appreciate the arts. If you’re not a fan of dance, at the very least, you can respect the hard work, dedication, and blood, sweat, and tears that are left on the stage. Both of these men did an amazing job.

A Father’s Role

2011-08-25T15:31:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

A while ago, I wrote a piece, “Daddy’s Little Girl,” in which I described how affected I was by not being fortunate enough to have my father in my life on a consistent basis. I expressed my deep-rooted desire to be a “Daddy’s Girl.” A few years later, as I approach the prospect of having children of my own, I tend to dwell on just how important this same thing may or may not be to my own children, vowing to always keep both parents in their lives.

I find myself examining the types of households that surround me. The reality is that the majority of African-American families are headed by single mothers, which has unfortunately become the norm. Then, I take a closer look and realize the sheer number of mothers raising boys/young men with little or no help from the fathers. Being the product of this very situation, it concerns me that the cycle is continuing.

Honestly, even though it's clearly being done, the likelihood of a woman raising a man the same as a good father would is quite slim. As much as little girls need their mothers for “girl” stuff, the same is true for little boys when it comes to their fathers. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll definitely acknowledge the fact that just by having a male figure present (a grandfather, a uncle, or a God-father) may make a bit of difference. After all, it’s still a father figure, right? While this may hold some truth, I can still contend that the love of a father can’t be substituted no matter how hard someone tries.

To the women of Generation Y, accepting the fact that the father of your child isn’t around is not acceptable. To the men, not being present in your children’s lives is definitely unacceptable and bouncing in and out at your own convenience is even worse. The point here is to break the cycle that has being going on for far too long.

Back to College Do’s and Don’ts

2011-08-23T14:09:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

School is starting again and usually the first few days of a new school year are the most exciting for a college student: new classes, new people, a chance to get involved on campus, and a new year. To start your school year off right, there are some “do’s and don’ts” for college.

Do: Get Involved

Don’t: Bite off more than you can chew.

It’s great to get involved in a school club or two, but don’t stretch yourself too far. Concentrating on your grades and relaxing are way more important.

Do: Go out every now and then.

Don’t: Go out every day.

Definitely go out every now and then to have fun and let loose a little because college can be stressful. However, going out everyday could be a distraction, leaving you tired all the time. So, make sure there is a balance.

Do: Keep your old friends around.

Don’t: Limit yourself and not make new friends.

Most likely there are a lot of new students at your school. Remember, just like you, they don’t know the ropes. So, they will need your help and most likely a friend. You can be that helping hand and friend to a new student. If you were new, you would definitely appreciate the help.

Life AFTER College

2011-08-18T15:41:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

As autumn nears, I’m starting to freak out about the start of the semester. After all, it will be my fourth year as a college student. When I was a senior in high school, I looked at graduation as a golden ticket to paradise, with paradise being college, or as I like to call it, my home away from home.

Now that I’m a senior in college, home away from home seems like the gateway to responsibilities. Bills on top of bills, bank loan denials, career struggles, and less time to catch up on my much-needed beauty sleep. It's weird how you wait your entire childhood to become "grown," but when you get there, it's an entirely different story. Most of your adulthood, your wishing you were a kid again, right?

However, if you look at the bigger picture, growing up doesn’t have to suck. I’ve seen adults before me make the impossible, possible, and I’ll be damned if I get wrinkles and gray hairs by the age of 22. In my eyes, life after college will mainly be determined by how I make the most out of it. Today is going to be treated like a blessing. I have faith in the evidence of things not seen…don't you?

The Blake Martin Experience: iCandy Show 2011

2011-08-16T09:04:00.000-07:00

By: Mariah Craddick

Before even stepping into the auditorium at the Illinois Institute of Technology in Chicago for designer Blake Martin's iCandy fashion show/dance concert, I had been warned—numerous times.

"Come with an open mind," they told me. "You're in for a 'treat,'" they'd say—with me not really knowing what they meant by it. But by the end of the night, it all made sense.

A Blake Martin show is something so unique and so daring that you might sometimes find yourself wanting to cover your children's eyes--or even your own. Yet still, with everything that takes place on stage you might find it hard to pry your eyes away.

For his show this year, Blake went for a "candy store" theme--though the show, which lasted about three hours, eventually veered off into other directions. Songs like Aaron Carter's "I Want Candy" and New Edition's "Candy Girl" filled the air as models of all shapes and colors sauntered down the runway.

For nearly every segment, or "scene," the models would come out in fashions designed by some of the up-and-coming young designers in Chicago. And if the nearly naked models didn't keep your attention long enough, there were dancers in the background holding it down, making it all come together.

This was probably the first time I'd ever seen someone couple a runway fashion show with a dance concert--and do it seamlessly. That's the genius of Blake Martin. Blake has already garnered quite a following in the Chicago area and will be surely making a name for himself worldwide in the near future. This was also the first show of his that he danced in himself. He came out for the "Vogue" section, hitting the moves harder than most of the other dancers on the stage--truly showing why he's the boss.

Hosted by local celebrity and Chicago radio personality, Demi Lobo, the show did a great job of incorporating audience participation by having dance competitions and runway walk-offs in between scenes. The show ended with everybody on their feet, screaming and shouting their praise. The tireless hours and effort put behind the production definitely paid off and by curtain call, Blake had found himself a seat on the end of the stage, waving goodbye to everyone as they left.

Surely, being the producer/choreographer/dancer/complete visionary that he is--the stage probably feels the most like home to him.

Enjoying What's Left of Summer

2011-08-11T15:44:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

As summer comes to an end, quite naturally everybody wants to enjoy what’s left of it. These last few weeks should be memorable, right? You want to have fun, but you don’t want to wear yourself out. Here are a few things you can do to make your last bit of summer great.

Rest

During these last few weeks, lounge around the house every now and then. Take advantage of being able to sleep in, catch up on a TV favorite show, re-organize your closet, clean around the house, or give yourself a little spa day.

Quality Time

Whether you’re out “painting the town red” or having a small get together at your house, having that bonding time with your friends is essential. Talking about your summer and what’s going on in your lives is a great way to "de-stress" and have fun.

Do something that you wanted to do

Was there something you wanted to do, but you didn’t get the chance to? Well check out that art exhibit you haven’t got the chance to see, a concert, or see that new summer blockbuster you keep putting off.

Whatever you do just make sure you enjoy your last bit of summer!

Summer Romances

2011-08-09T13:45:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

As a single, young lady, the occasional date is easily becoming a favorite past time of mine. However, summer flings are like water parks that I don’t care to visit. You know how water parks look awesome from afar, they even look fun for those people who aren’t deathly afraid of water. For me, it’s terrifying, because I can’t swim. So, quite naturally, I could drown. The same is true when it comes to summer flings. They are just not my thing.

The act of falling in love is something that should definitely be cherished and not taken for granted just to occupy a season. It’s easy to become infatuated with someone during the warmer months. The weather is near perfect, their are minimal obligations for some, there’s lots of travel, and during the summer you can be someone else for a short period of time, if that’s your choice. In a sense, the summer is a fantasy. When the weather breaks, reality hits.

So, are seasonal flings intended to stay just as that, or is it allowed to grow into something more when the weather starts to change and the leaves began to fall? I’m pretty curious myself because what happens when these “flings” still have that flame well into the next season? If the compatibility and chemistry is out of this world, must the romance end when September rolls around? I suppose calling it off isn’t totally out of the question if two lovers make their intentions crystal clear. Oftentimes, a summer fling lives off distance and adventure, only useful to ignite sensuality. What a shame and waste of something so good!

Chicago Stylists Featured in Fashion Affair

2011-08-04T04:46:00.000-07:00

By: Iya Bakare

On Sunday July 31, guests gathered at Block 37’s Akira in downtown Chicago for a Fashion Affair Stylist Showcase. Chicago native and Akira stylist Aaja Corinne styled models on some of the boutique’s hottest looks for this season. Prior and after the fashion showcase, guests sipped on mimosas as they shopped and took advantage of sales on this season of Akira’s collection.

The models wore accessories from the lines of two local jewelry designers, Brittany Jett and Deleay Lashay.

Young Entertainers Taking Over the "Business"

2011-08-02T15:51:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

Lately, it appears to be a swarm of young entertainers taking over the entertainment business. Most of which are off-springs of some well-known, successful adult names that we are accustomed to seeing.

There’s Jada and Will Smith’s children, Willow and Jaden, Rev Run’s son, Diggy Simmons, and Usher’s mentee, Justin Bieber. Then, you also have others like "Mindless Behavior" and some child actors who are making their mark like China Anne McClain from "House of Payne," who now stars in her own TV show on the Disney Channel. These are some of the biggest, young entertainers in the industry today.

These young people are so successful now, that you can’t help but to wonder will their success continue well into adulthood. We all know that there are some child stars who are just that, child stars. Then you have those select few who are around far beyond their years. People like Michael Jackson, Usher, and Beyonce’ are just a few who have had the chance to experience longevity as entertainers.

I think the young entertainer's success all depends on their fan base and their motivation to continue to produce great work. Having great fans that will continue to support their careers is sometimes all that is needed, but the key is to keep the fans interested and happy.

Casey Anthony: How Much Is Too Much?

2011-07-28T16:16:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

If you are not the least bit familiar with the name Casey Anthony, then you must have been living under a rock for the past few months. A few weeks ago, news swirled around the trial that would put this mother behind bars for what some may deem too short of a time period for allegedly being responsible for her daughters death, which occurred three years ago. However, she was found not guilty of manslaughter and murder of the child.

If the details surrounding the entire incident aren’t enough to stir up a few debates in your circle, the fact that Casey could possibly receive millions of dollars as a result of the attention that this unfortunate situation has received should at least ruffle some features. It’s no secret that once something gets a lot of attention from the public and more importantly the media, it starts to get larger than life. This particular situation, as well as others similar to it, also seems to have another effect: those persons who happen to be in the public eye as a result of something like a high-profile trial eventually get the chance to profit form it, too. Sometimes there are movie/book deals, they are thrust into the public eye, which can be appealing for some, and oftentimes, they have the option to charge an insane amount of money for an interview.

With the Casey Anthony case, this notion seems to remain true as speculation continues to swirl. While the trial is still fresh in everyone’s mind, it’s a no-brainer that all types of media outlets are trying to be the first to strike it rich with an interview from her. It’s pretty much safe to say that she could practically charge whatever she pleases to the highest bidder. So, what does this say about the type of society that we live in today?

It has always been clear that we are a culture that is consumed by all things that have to do with entertainment, whether it’s negative or positive. To know that there’s a possibility that someone could profit financially over something so tragic is truly disturbing, but it’s a cruel world and we’re just living in it, right?

“Sugar Babies:" Is It Worth It?

2011-07-26T12:05:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

I was first introduced to the lifestyle of “sugar babies” after an episode of “The Tyra Show,” but I was recently reminded of this awkward reality on MTV’s “True Life: I’m A Sugar Baby.” Now, the term is technically defined as a woman who doesn’t mind exchanging herself or her time for gifts or money. While women usually fall into this category, it’s still possible to find men who are willing to do the same thing.

As I watched, “True Life,” it didn’t disturb me when two young adults (one male and one female) admitted that their whole purpose is to find someone who could pamper and take care of them. Obviously, that’s what being a “sugar baby” is all about, right? What did surprise me were their reactions, when their “sugar daddies” wanted something in return; to me, that’s unspoken and sort of expected. Let’s face it, nothing in this world is free no matter how it may seem. I’m not sure if maturity is a factor, but these individuals just seem to appear pretty naive. No one is going to be okay with spending their hard earned cash, taking vacations, and paying bills but not getting anything of significance out of the deal.

The whole “sugar baby” exchange just seems like a risky business that broke, young adults turn to because they may feel like there aren’t any other options. I’m almost sure that it’s not worth it. It’ll be more rewarding to just get a job and be responsible for yourself.

College Woes

2011-07-21T14:15:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

From the time you are able to truly understand what school is and it’s importance, it’s usually drilled into your brain that higher education is not just an option, it’s a must. Not too long ago, a high school diploma was sufficient, and most people didn’t think twice if you mentioned the fact that you didn’t have a degree. However, times have definitely changed. At the very least, a college degree of some sort is almost always standard, and a Master’s/Ph.D in a particular field of study is preferred.

So, what happens when you don’t have the funds that some others may possess to further your education beyond the basics? Let’s face it, not everyone could afford to flush out tens of thousands of dollars each year, even if it’s more like an investment. While we’re constantly told that without a college degree, we probably won’t get that job of our dreams with the perfect salary to match, most of our parents neglect to start saving for our future, which means that when that time comes, that's one additional thing added to the list of concerns. Some people may recommend scholarships or grants, which all “sound” good on the surface, but are not easy to maintain or get for that matter. For most college bound students, loans are the only option and depending on various factors and the type of school loan you’re applying for, this particular process isn’t as easy as it sounds either.

With all that said, there are still those unique individuals (outside of entertainers) who are still very much successful without a college degree. So, if college is not an option just yet due to finances, carefully evaluate other options to see which avenues are best for you and your particular situation.

Grandparents: 2k11 Edition

2011-07-19T13:41:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

Ever wonder about the old folks of the past? You know, those who were born in the good old days; the wise generation that are pre-technology, social networks, and all that other good stuff. There was once upon a time when “Granny” use to be that little old lady in a floral nightgown, bright lipstick, and her hair adorn with flakes of grey. She also had an insane amount of photo albums, and not to mention, she had stories to tell that went back for what seems like ages. Grandpa was never too far away. You know, that sweet, wrinkled old man?

Well, not anymore. I guess I should say at least not my grandparents. Out with the rocking chairs and in with the wonders of youth, because grandparents all over are more vibrant than ever. Now they are re-defining what it means to be a grandparent by throwing parties, vacationing on their terms, and even taking up the risk of online dating. Yes, DATING!!!

Honestly, I’m proud of this transition. It puts a smile on my face when I see a 70+ year old grocery shopping or exercising at the crack of dawn. One of my grandmother’s is fairly young, so for the sake of argument let’s not include her. However, my great grandmother is a different story. I went to her house a few weeks ago, and she left such an impression on me. She’s healthy and active, and she even tried to offer me a “drink!”

It’s definitely motivating to see that life is still fun for those who aren’t physically young. Mark Twain said it best, “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.”

#YouKnowTwitterIsTakingOverYourLifeWhen

2011-07-14T14:40:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

Twitter is a popular social media site where you pretty much tell your followers what’s going on in your life at the moment. Picture one huge text message that never ends, and that's Twitter in a nutshell. Some tweeters (people on Twitter) tell every detail of their lives; what they are doing, who’s with them, what they eat, and sometimes a little too much information.

You have some people who refrain from tweeting every single second they get free, but for every one of them, there’s about 10 more who tweet their hearts away all day and night. It makes you wonder if Twitter is taking over your life. I must admit, there are those times when something great, weird, or funny happens, and you don’t have anyone to share it with; so, why not tweet it, right? With that said, there is a limit to what a person should tweet. I’m sure many people would beg to differ on that point. However, some things in your life should remain private.

If you want to tell your followers about a sale at Zara, then go ahead and tweet it. If you want to tell your followers about something you saw at Zara in a certain section, the size, and the color of an item, that may be a little too much information. The moral of the story is to be a wise tweeter ladies and gentlemen.

Keep Your Friends Close & Your Enemies Closer

2011-07-12T15:23:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

There comes a time in everyone’s life when they’ll face jealously and backstabbing. As of late, this has been commonly referred to as “haters” by today’s generation. For females, this seems to be especially true. While people who blatantly hate you sometimes make it known, there are those who tend to be fake. What’s even more interesting is that the ones who are the closest to you tend to hate the most; these people are sometimes referred to as “frenemies.”

“Frenemies” can be the most difficult people you ever encounter simply because their disdain for you can be very understated. The most unappealing aspect of having a friend who also happens to be an enemy is that you may not realize that in the end, they don’t have your best interest at heart. These relationships are pointless, but many times, they are hard to detect.

How to spot one? Well for one, “frenemies” do not typically pop up like an unnoticed stain on your new outfit, although the situation may indeed feel that way. They are much more clever. Unfortunately, they blossom over time; therefore, there's a great possibility that they are very aware of your secrets and weaknesses. How to deal? You can call them out, facing the issue head on. An alternative is for you to get even, but once you’re past a certain age, that can be thought of as immature. Plus, you would be wasting your precious time and energy. Ultimately, it’s up to you.

"Bey" is Back with "4"

2011-07-07T15:20:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

While some artists drop albums at least once a year, there are a select few who take their time between projects. These unique individuals recognize that it takes time to create an album that shows growth and their development as artists. Also, they make sure their fans will appreciate the blood, sweat, and tears that they put into their work. Not to take anything away from those artists who release albums more frequently, but I’ve come to appreciate those who realize that all good things take time.

Luckily, for #TeamBey, Beyonce’ took enough time (about three years) off before releasing her latest album, “4.” While “Dangerously In Love” and “B’Day” could both be arguably considered her greatest pieces of work, “4” has the potential to hold a torch to the two. In two words, “4” is “classic Bey.” For those who admire her work, her fourth solo album delivers those same upbeat, dance tracks mixed with some sensational ballads that have the power to bring tears to your eyes.

With all the significance behind this album, it was clear from the start that she would put her all into this project. Before the album was released last Tuesday, singles like “1+1,” “Best Thing I Never Had,” and “Run the World (Girls)" gave way to what her fans could expect from her this time around. However, it’s ballads like “I Miss You,” “I Was Here,” and “Rather Die Young” that steal the show. Rest assure, “4” works as a form of relationship therapy, which is characteristic of Beyonce’. It’s something for those couples who are just starting out, those who are doing great, and those who are at a crossroads.

Selling a little over 300,000 copies in its first week, “4” will no doubt be another platinum album that Beyonce’ can add to her collection. What’s interesting is that it’s already TRIPLE platinum in Brazil, and it’s #1 in the UK. It’s safe to say that international fans are showing her way more love.

Marriage: Too Young?

2011-07-05T14:38:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

At the age of 21, I currently know 11 people who are either married or engaged to be married. All of these people are in my age bracket. Some people would say they’re too young; therefore, they’re not ready for such a commitment. Some people could even argue that they are too young to have a clear understanding of love. For every person that may question these relationships, there is possibly one person that would argue that love has no limits, including age.

I'm one of those people who's is split down the middle. I say love truly has no age limits once you reach a certain level of maturity, but there’s the other side of love where you have to ask yourself are you ready for the commitment? Are you ready to truly take someone "for better or worse" and become one with the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with?

It's said that the divorce rate in America is about 50 percent. So, if you do the math, for every two couples who are married, at least one of them will possibly get a divorce. This point alone may deter people from pursuing marriage despite the age. Furthermore, statistics show that the highest percentage of divorces is among women between 20-24 years old.

I believe no one is truly 100 percent ready for marriage. It’s a learning process that you and your significant other have to go through together. There will be hard times and there will be trials. Unfortunately, there are times when some couples can’t make it through those trials. Then, there are other times when there is joy, happiness, and excitement once you realize why you are with that one person. So, I guess the question is not is there a such thing as too young, but are you ready for all that comes with marriage?

Embracing Your Inner Child with "Cars 2"

2011-06-30T11:26:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

As ironic as it may seem, somehow, the older you get, the more in tuned you tend to get with your inner child. When it comes to activities and how we entertain ourselves, this notion becomes more apparent. At times, it appears as though young adults are more prone to be intrigued by things like water parks, board games, and animated movies, which are typically associated with children.

With that said, I was immediately satisfied with the news that "Cars 2" was due to hit theaters this summer. Although the original was exceptional, the sequel was just as entertaining, delivering a sequence of laughter and one hilarious scene after another.

As expected, Tow Mater, Lightning McQueen’s best friend, stole the show. This time around, the setting for this adventure went beyond Radiator Springs to places like Japan and Italy.

While young adults may not be the target audience for "Cars 2" or any other animated movie for that matter, the story line sort of gives way to the opposite idea. For a “children’s” movie, there was a little violence, which was a bit unsettling, but other than that, it’s a must-see.

It’s definitely worth the trip to the movie theater. You may even want to consider bringing your children along for the ride!

Deleay Lashay Gives Back

2011-06-28T18:57:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

Marissa Kendrick, jewelry designer of Deleay Lashay, is setting on a new venture - a camp for teenage girls.

“I decided to come up with the camp after noticing the high rate of teen pregnancies, low rate in education and self-esteem,” Kendrick says. “I hope the girls will learn how to be bossy in this world, meaning work hard for whatever their dreams are and know that they are in charge of their own happiness. I hope they learn to understand that true beauty comes from within and learn the meaning of what being a true conversation piece in life is about.”

The jewelry designer hopes to have more events like these in the future. “There are a lot of young girls out there who need guidance and direction and we as women need to reach out to our girls who will one day be women.”

The camp will be on July 11^th-13^th and will be at Grant Park in Chicago. To get more information about the camp, visit www.deleaylashay.com.

Does Age Really Matter?

2011-06-23T05:13:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Usually, when you first meet someone, one of the first questions you have is regarding their age, especially if you can sense that their is at least some sort of physical or emotional attraction. More than likely, the reasoning behind this question is that you want to assess the situation. You know, figure out if the potential "Mr./Miss Right" is too old/young for you. It’s even more surprising that women, in particular, have age requirements. Some won’t date younger at all, while others have the bar set in either direction.

As I get older, I’m forced to contemplate the significance of age, and its importance or lack thereof when it comes to considering a long-term relationship. With that said, it’s also essential to consider the notion “age ain’t nothing, but a number.” After all, just because someone’s a certain age doesn’t necessarily mean that their mentality is equilavent to its numerical value. So, I’ll go out on a limb to say that a person’s mentality weighs a little more heavily than his/her exact age. However, I do realize that this may not always be true.

Now, your own personal beliefs may very well be influenced by society. From the time we first start dating, we’re sold on the idea that the man should be taller, bigger, and older. It’s the “perfect” image, right? So, when a woman dates a younger man, quite naturally, it takes most people by surprise. This is especially true if there’s a significant age difference. To be completely fair, the same could be said about men who date younger women.

They say the older you get, the more age is not a factor, but I don’t necessarily know that there’s much truth to this statement. No matter how much you believe "to each its own," people will talk or have an opinion on just about everything you do. Unfortunately, it's hard to live life not caring about other's expectations, but just remember if people are not talking about you, then you're not doing something right.

"Just Friends?"

2011-06-21T06:26:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

It is the age old question: can women and men be just friends? While this is one question that has plagued people for generations, I'm going to settle all of the disputes. I’m just going to come right out and say it. Yes, it is possible for men and women to just be friends. Who am I to say that the thought is unimaginable or impossible? The fact that two people aren't the same sex shouldn't necessarily mean that they are incapable of having a platonic relationship.

With that said, the best way to maintain a healthy friendship that involves members of the opposite sex is to eliminate and/or conquer the physical attraction. Oftentimes, this is easier said than done, but if you can get around this tiny detail, it could possibly be smooth sailing from that moment until forever. Now, let's break it down for a second. Getting past the physical can mean a lot of different things. However, it boils down to whether or not you're going to act on "it" or not.

Back in the day, when there was absolutely no pressure that came along with being friends with the opposite sex, we found a way to make it work, right? That was the time when boys and girls were buddies and pals. So, why can't the same be true in adulthood? Friendship does not have to mean romance. We have the choice to either allow a friendship to transition into something more or to uphold its genuine emotion.

In my case, I like the fact that my friendship with males aren't romantic at all. My male friends are like brothers. They are there when I need advice and my partners in crime. Sure they may witness a heartbreak and may even try to mend it, but that's as far as it goes.

In the words of Don O'Meara, Ph.D. at the University of Cincinnati-Raymond Walters College, "Platonic love does exist." We just have to decide for ourselves what's appropriate and what's not.

Summer May Mean Something Different to Some Chicagoans

2011-06-16T04:56:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

The summer months always bring this kind of relaxed, stress-free sort of mindset. It’s a time to let go. It’s a time for less clothing and more adventures. It’s the time that we anticipate all year long. After all, for most people, there’s no school, minimal work, lots of travel, and loads of fun.

When you live in one of the nation’s major cities, like Chicago, the traveling might seem more appealing than staying in the city for the summer trying to find ways to have fun while remaining safe. It’s no secret that Chicago has been on the nation’s top list for many things within recent years. Most recently, it was for the highest gasoline prices, but what’s even more unsettling is its mark as one of cities with the highest crime rate.

If you grew up in Chicago, then it’s probably easier to believe some of the alarming statistics, and as most Chicagoans know, the number of deaths happen to increase during the warmer months. The recent hot days have gave way to various shootings and even in March, when there were only two consecutive unseasonably warm days, there were 19 deaths within that 48-hour time frame. With that said, the city’s crime rate has continued to decline, with April marking the 28th consecutive month that the violent crime numbers were down.

Even though there’s crime everywhere, it’s unsettling to know that you truly cannot let your guard down and just enjoy a city as beautiful as Chicago in its prime. So, while most people love the city as a vacation spot during the warmer months, most Chicagoans find it a little bit harder to love it during that same time frame.

Word for Word: New Poets to Check Out

2011-06-14T05:22:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

I am a big fan of poetry. So, whenever I find new poets, I love sharing their talents. Three poets that I am really interested in right now are Joshua Bennett, Jasmine Mans, and Janette…ikz.

Joshua Bennett

Joshua Bennett is a spoken word artist from Yonkers, N.Y. As a recent college graduate from the University of Pennsylvania, Joshua is talented. His most famous poem, “10 Things I Want To Say To a Black Woman,” is about all the positive things he wants to say to black women: “It’s something about the way light dances off your teeth. The way the moon gets jealous when you mock her crescent figure with the shape of your mouth.”

Jasmine Mans

Jasmine Mans is a poet and writer who made appearances on “Def Poetry” and "HBO presents: Brave New Voices." Jasmine Mans performed a piece called “Nicki Minaj” at the 2010 Stomp Da Madness at the University of Wisconsin- Madison. With lines like “Leave you noose necked hanging from Zion they will Lauryn Hill you, the mis-education of a Barbie doll coming soon,” this poem turned heads.

Janette…ikz

Janette McGhee a.k.a Janette…ikz is a spoken word artist from Long Beach, Ca. She has made plenty of appearances on P4CM (The Passion for Christ Movement), where she recited “The Truth without Photoshop” and “I Will Wait for You”. In “I Will Wait for You,” she talks about how she will wait for the man God intended for her to be with instead of being disappointed by the “carbon copies.” She also makes it known with lines like “Cause it was ME who let him in…Claiming we were “just friends”…It was already decided for me by the first date, that even if he wasn’t, I was gonna make him ‘The One’…You know… I was tired of being alone, and I simply made up in my mind, that it was about that time…so I decided to drag him along for the ride…”

"Single Ladies": Art Imitating Life?

2011-06-09T12:56:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Despite the age, for many African-American women living the "single life" is very much a reality. While the reasons may vary, this is especially true for those women who are professionals. You know, the women who appear to have it all when it comes to their careers. For most of these women, having it "all" comes at a price, then the age old question comes to mind: is it going to be a successful career or a happy family? Of course, this is 2011, but let's be real, just as much as we see teen pregnancies, we also see single, successful women of all ages without any children. To this very day, I still wreck my brain trying to figure out if you can truly have both. Most of the time, it comes down to sacrifice, which one is most important at a particular time in your life?

It's not as if single women can escape this reality that is harsh for some, because there are constant reminders everywhere. It's the topic of phone conversations, talk show discussions, it's all the rage on social networking sites, and it's played out in movies and now on VH1's new series, "Single Ladies." Just two weeks ago, the telling series premiered, stirring up quite a bit of conversation.

The first thing I thought was that the series is definitely an example of art imitating life. With a star-studded cast of beautiful actors/actresses, "Single Ladies" is one show that has the ability to have some promise. As much as the story lines can be a bit far-fetched, at the core, it all makes sense. Unfortunately, I'm sure viewers can actually relate. The point is made that women, especially African-American women, are single for their own individual reasons.

Logically, you would assume that the older you get, the easier a lot of things would be, but that seems to be so far from the truth, especially when it comes to relationships. One thing is for sure, as much energy that is put into talking about being single and trying to analyze your "status," that same energy could be channeled towards being productive in that same area. Maybe the issue is that most women would rather "talk" about it opposed to being about it.

Are Children Growing Up Too Fast?

2011-06-07T06:24:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

The day I returned to my hometown, I was amazed at the sight of my 7-year-old brother playing with his Nintendo DSi. I tried to be the cool, older sister. So, I decided to share my gadget owning days in an effort to relate. Back in the day, I had a Gameboy Color and a Polaroid i-Zone. I went on and on about my experiences and to my surprise, he interrupted my story with a click of a button. My photograph was taken instantly and morphed right onto the screen. He made my image look deformed, laughed, and said, “Ice, I’m gonna put you on YouTube.” I wondered, how in the world does he know about YouTube? Furthermore, how does he know about blackmail? More importantly, why does he have internet access?! He’s only seven!

Not too long after the run in with my younger brother, we both met up with our six-year-old sister. She wasn't flashing pictures in an effort to blackmail me, but she was having a fit about her Nintendo DSi battery dying. “I need to connect to Jordan,” she said. I was confused. It was mind bottling that they were so comfortable with technology, like mini experts.

Here I am, a 20-year-old college student with a box full of stuffed animals, trolls, and notes, while my younger siblings are already concerned with social networks and video games. I can’t be too upset, because unlike most children their age, they still play outside for hours. As long as they still get fresh air and a chance to use their imagination, I’m okay with them having a blast playing Mario. I mean, all I got were board games, cheap graphics, and plastic.

Another “Hangover”

2011-06-02T04:56:00.001-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Prior to this past Memorial Day weekend, many people waited, for what seemed like forever, to see the highly-anticipated sequel to "Hangover." Last week, the wait was over, as people all over the country crowded movie theaters with the hope that this sequel could live up to the original.

Let’s be honest, it’s hard to compete with an original, especially if the original was so good. In this case, "Hangover" is one movie that will go down as a classic when it comes to comedies. So, when word got out that there would be a part two, people were definitely excited about it, even if they had reservations.

This spring alone, we’ve seen the same story lines done over and over again in movies like "Scream 4" and "FastFive." Somehow, viewers just keep coming back for more, even when they know the outcome. Whether you had high expectations for "Hangover 2" or not, you have to admit that it did a pretty good job considering what is was up against.

Although the story line is almost the same, the location changes, which adds a different element. The fact that the same actors return is a plus, as well. Without giving too much away, each actor takes his character to the next level, while staying true to himself. Bradley “Phil” Cooper adds the looks and the same serious, yet comical relief. Ed “Stu” Helms is still quirky. Zach “Allen” Galifianakis brings everything to the movie, and without him, it just wouldn’t be the same. Justin “Doug” Bartha plays a small role in this one, but he’s still just as responsible as you remember.

In just one week, "Hangover 2" grossed more than $200 million. This is one sequel that is definitely a must-see.

Chicago: Summer, Summer, Summertime!

2011-05-31T14:36:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

This is my first summer in Chicago, and I have to say I'm pretty excited. There are a lot of things to do during the summer and the best part about it is that a lot of activities are free! Here are a few activities that you may want to keep in mind:

The Chicago Blues Festival

The Chicago Blues Festival is the largest free blues festival in the world and remains the largest of Chicago's music festivals. Taking place in Grant Park the weekend of June 10, the festival will bring a variety of performances, which occur for about eight hours each day during the event. Previous performers include Bonnie Raitt, Ray Charles, B.B. King, Buddy Guy, Bo Diddley, and Koko Taylor.

Taste of Chicago

The Taste of Chicago is the nation's premier outdoor food festival showcasing the diversity of Chicago's dining community. Taking place in Grant Park, the Taste also has music and various activities for the entire family. For now, admission is free, but the food will cost you. With 59 restaurants participating, four of the city’s annual lakefront music festivals incorporated into the Taste, and a giant turtle sandbox from Target, it seems like this is one event you don't want to miss.

Visiting the Beach

If overcrowded events aren't your thing, you may want to indulge in a favorite past time. Since the weather is finally getting warmer, you can have a relaxing day at the beach. With 24 beaches in the Chicagoland area, I'm sure you can find one that's just right for you. It’s a way to have fun with your friends and family, or you can go solo and enjoy a good book.

Memorial Day: Food, Family, Fun and So Much More

2011-05-26T13:13:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

As one of the most anticipated weekends approaches, many people in America are planning to spend time with family and friends, while enjoying some barbeque. Most people see this holiday as an opportunity to party or at the very least have fun, because the summer can officially begin. While Memorial Day is all that, it happens to be much more. So, as you’re planning that vacation to a warm climate or planning the menu where there’s no shortage of ribs, chicken, and potato salad, keep in mind where it all started.

Now, we all know that Memorial Day is always the last Monday in May and the word “memorial” gives way to its history. So, you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that it’s a special day for one reason and one reason only: to honor the men and women who died while serving their country.

Following the Civil War, it became a tradition to decorate the graves of those who died; thus, it was originally called, “Decoration Day.” It wasn’t until 1971 when Memorial Day became an official holiday. It’s 40 years later and cemeteries all over the country are filled with love, people are planning gatherings, and just like some other holidays we love so much, parades will line the streets.

So, while you’re enjoying yourself this weekend in celebration of those who fought and died for your country, take a second and remember where it all started. Oh, and don’t forget that Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day are different in the fact that the latter honors all veterans, living and dead.

Heating Up the Summer with Some New Tunes

2011-05-24T12:26:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

There are a handful of anticipated albums this summer, yet I feel so out of touch! Maybe it’s because the albums that peek my interest aren’t scheduled to be released until fall; or maybe it’s, because I’m too picky. Whatever the reason, I still would like to be able to keep up with each and every dope release, whether it's a mix-tape, a single, or an entire album.

I have to say the Beastie Boys' "Hot Sauce Committee Part Two" is definitely a must-have this summer. The much-anticipated album is finally here with 16 tracks. If you can’t respect the group as icons in Hip Hop, you could at least agree that their tribute, "Fight For Your Right Revisited," starring Seth Rogen, Elijah Wood, and Will Ferrell, was not only visually stimulating but hella cool.

Then, there’s Big Sean's "Finally Famous," which fans will have to wait a little bit longer to hear. Once again, its release was pushed back a week, but it's now due sometime in June. With features from Wiz, Pharrell, and Kanye, I might have to reassess my opinion about him and his music. We have a love-hate relationship, but he’s talented, and he has potential.

Finally, there's all this buzz swirling around some of the best in the game. From Drake's "Take Care" to Rick Ross's "God Forgives, I Don't," this summer will definitely heat up. Not to mention, there's Lil Wayne's "The Carter IV" and Jay Z and Kanye's "Watch the Throne."

While 2010 gave us so many new artists, as well as new tracks, 2011 has to step up to the plate. All we can do now is wait patiently.

“Two Hearts, One God. Should Anything Else Matter?”

2011-05-19T06:46:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

Zora & Nicky by Claudia Mair Burney is probably one of the realest books I've read in a long time about race and religion.

Zora Nella Hampton, an African-American woman and a pastor’s child, has practically everything any girl would want: the hottest designer clothes, a degree from Spelman, a nice car, and a hot boyfriend. Unfortunately, these luxuries come at a price. It’s her father’s way of keeping her under his thumb. He ignores her love for painting, art, and her old ways of her grandfather’s church. Her “privileged” life has left her feeling like she has lost God. She wants Him back.

Nicky Parker, a Caucasian male and a pastor's child, is a recent Berkeley graduate and a reformed playboy. Him and his father, a Caucasian, racist, southern-baptist pastor, don’t get along.

When Zora and Nicky see each other at bible study, there's an instant attraction, but both remain on the defense. However, they can’t seem to stop thinking about each other.

When I read this book it was so hard to put it down. The complicated (and I mean complicated) love story of Zora and Nicky was so beautiful! Neither experienced an interracial relationship before, and this book explores the many thoughts that go through their heads when it comes to their relationship. Although the book has a lot of Christian values sprinkled throughout, the author doesn't hold anything back with Zora and Nicky’s feelings for each other.

I would definitely recommend it to anyone who likes a good love story with so much more to it.

Summer Blockbusters

2011-05-17T11:52:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

They cherry on top of every summer is music festivals, cookouts, and movies. Yes, I said movies!!! Secretly, I'm anticipating the release of Transformers: Dark of the Moon. Although I didn’t get to experience the making of Transformers, I'll be overjoyed come July 1. The fact that the film crew took over one of the busiest streets in Chicago for a number of weeks, adds to my excitement. To say that the movies’s trailer is intense is an understatement. I’m pretty sure anything with Jesse Eisenberg and Aziz Ansari will be hilarious. Transformers will undoubtedly provide us with a healthy dose of action for these hot months.

As for comedy, the sequel to The Hangover is sure to deliver this Memorial Day weekend. “Bromances” will spark over drunken recollections for a second time. Oftentimes, it’s hard for a sequel to live up to the original, but my guess is that this movie will come close.

Adding to the list of movies that aren’t the original is Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides. Shot for the first time in 3D, fans can look forward to seeing something different when they enter theaters this Friday. The particular franchise appears to have longevity. So, there may be more to come.

With a little bit of something for everyone, this should be a great summer!

Welcome to the May/June 2011 Glossy Blog!

2011-05-13T12:12:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the May/June issue of GlossMagazineOnline.com! Summer is in the air and in celebration of the warmer weather; check out the new issue of the online magazine written BY you and FOR you!   

Again, we thank you for continuing to turn to GMO for the latest news, hot topics, up-and-coming features, and creative pieces written by young, up-and-coming talents! What are you waiting for? Flip through the virtual pages of YOUR online magazine now!

 In This Issue:

An Interview with Chicago's Own Demi Lobo
Interviews with Two Up-and-Coming Jewelry Designers: Nik Scott & Marissa Kendrick
An Interview with Gospel Artist Tré Thomas
Meet Pastor Melva Henderson
Black Women Dating Outside Their Race
A Special Preview of a New Book on Men Cheating with "Unattractive" Women
Maintaining a Summer Relationship

and so much more!

Special to GMO: A Preview of Emunah La-Paz’s Why Do Married Men Cheat With Unattractive Women?

2011-05-13T11:57:00.000-07:00

Comment on the Preview of the new book by Emunah La-Paz’s Why Do Married Men Cheat With Unattractive Women? here

So, you read the excerpt from the new non-fiction book by Emunah La-Paz on GlossMagazineOnline.com. The book touches on an issue that has received lots of press lately (From Tiger to Jesse). Why DO men cheat with women who are “less” attractive than their wife or girlfriend? Why do men cheat period, but especially with an unattractive woman? Let's dish.

Where is the Love? A Look at Black Women Dating Outside Their Race

2011-05-13T11:49:00.000-07:00

Comment on the article by GMO Associate Editor Iya Bakare here

Ladies, have you dated outside your race? If not, would you? What do you think about black men seeming to be more "open" to dating outside their race than black women? Continue the conversation HERE.

Maintaining a Summer Relationship

2011-05-13T11:44:00.000-07:00

Comment on the article by GMO Staff Writer Hiba Abdillahi Here

Are you currently in a relationship and worried about what those summer months could mean for it? Or, are June, July and August just months on the calendar that have nothing to do with you relationship's lasting power? Get into it HERE.

Dark vs. Light: Does Skin Tone Still Matter?

2011-05-13T11:38:00.000-07:00

Comment on the article by GMO Staff Writer Stormi Texas Here

What do you think? IS skin tone still an issue in our community? Do you think women with darker complexions are seen as less beautiful? Are women of a lighter complexion treated differently or better by society? By the black community? Continue the conversation here.

Mother's Day Everyday

2011-05-10T12:24:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

So, Mother’s Day has come and gone, but the good thing is that there's another one next year. If you think about it, mothers should be celebrated everyday. So, while that designated day where we celebrate the women who put us on this earth is gone, you can still do something special for her just because she’s special. Here are some ideas to help you out:

A Gift Certificate to a Spa

Buy your mother a gift certificate to a spa. Whether it’s to get her nails done, a massage, or both, a mother would appreciate a day of pampering. A chance to relax can be just what the doctor ordered.

Beauty Products

Whether it’s something from Bath & Body Works, Carol’s Daughter, or Sephora, there’s something that your mom would love. A bonus is that she would look and feel fabulous.

An Edible Arrangement

If your mom is like my mom, she loves fruit! What better way to give your mom something small that was made into something beautiful. They use a variety of fruit like pineapples, oranges, strawberries, and many more. Your mom would love it!

A Gift from the Heart

If you have a certain talent like writing, drawing, painting, or composing music, I would encourage you to use that talent and make something great for your mother. It’s a one-of-a-kind gift that she would be able to cherish for a long time.

I hope this helps!

Entrepreneur Hosts 3rd Annual “Dangerous Curves Ahead” Benefit/Fashion Event

2011-05-05T09:17:00.000-07:00

By: Iya Bakare

Tamika Martell, owner and founder of A-Line Style Services, will present the 3^rd Annual Dangerous Curves Ahead Charity Fashion Show & Women’s Expo on Saturday, May 14 at Chicago’s Zhou B Art Center from 6-10 p.m.

The Chicago native uses her life’s testimony and her passion for fashion to give back to the community. Dangerous Curves Ahead is an event where models of all sizes showcase the works of local fashion designers in efforts to raise funds in the fight against homelessness. At the end of the fashion show, one mother from a local shelter will get a free makeover and an opportunity to "rip the runway." The mother will also receive gifts to aid in the transition for her and her children’s new lives.

Guests will enjoy complimentary beauty treatments, cocktails, and shopping from local vendors, while listening to the sounds of DJ Sundance. The festivities will also include a silent auction, over 20 exhibitors, and a live cooking demonstration with Celebrity Chef Lovely. Proceeds from the silent auction and ticket sales will go to the Chicago Coalition for the Homeless.

Tickets are $25 for general admission and $40 for VIP admission. For more information on the event, please visit the event’s website at www.dangerouscurvesahead.org. For inquiries or donation information, please email info@dangerouscurvesahead.org.

Our Most Memorable Men... As Women!

2011-05-03T13:27:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

Martin Lawrence as Sheneneh

Sheneneh, from the classic TV sitcom Martin, is truly a memorable character. Although, Martin played many characters on the show, Sheneneh was the most interesting, because she was played by a man. There hasn’t been another weave technician on television who has kept her nails and hair done and looked “fashionable” at all times. Amazingly, she remained a “lady,” despite her quick temper. It’s impossible not to love her knockoffs, fanny packs, gold jewelry, braids, and sense of humor.

Jamie Foxx as Wanda

In Living Color had an incredibly hilarious cast, but the not-so-good-looking woman with a bad attitude, also known as Wanda, is what made this particular show so special. Wanda was a blond diva, didn’t like any unattractive men, and she was always “red-ta-go.” Jamie did a great job of taking this character to a different level.

Tyler Perry as Madea

Whether you hate or love the plays and movies, Madea is the truth! She is the perfect example of an elder. The way she dresses, walks, and talks makes it easy for almost anyone to identify with her. Her signature one-liners are well-known and just like Sheneneh and Wanda, she has the attitude to match. There aren’t many people who can say they still have a “Big Mama,” but Tyler Perry as Madea, fills that void. Oh, and she has no problem with putting anyone in check.

"Curly Girls Rock" - A Natural Hair Meetup in Atlanta

2011-05-02T12:46:00.000-07:00

On Friday, April 29, 2011, three Atlanta based natural hair bloggers hosted the natural hair meetup at the Harlem Nights Lounge located at 201 Courtland Street, NE, Atlanta, GA 30303. Attendees received complimentary makeovers, hairstyle tutorials, mini manicures, and mini massages. Donations were collected for Beauty Recycled.

The Natural Hair Show

The hosts of “Curly Girls Rock” have been known to put on fabulous natural hair events in Atlanta, and this was their debut as a collaboration to show ladies that natural hair can be fabulous.

This mixer included ladies who are fully natural, transitioning, or relaxed aspiring naturals. Upon arrival, guests received gift bags with samples from various companies including Pooka Pure and Simple and many more. Several lucky attendees won awesome giveaways of beauty products and tools, making Curly Girls Rock the ultimate mixer in Atlanta for natural women.

To top it off, several of the top natural hair bloggers and owners of popular natural hair brands, such as Shea Moisture, Tea and Honey Blends, and many more were present. GoodGirlPR, a natural hair care publicist, was the proud public relations sponsor of Curly Girls Rock.

Attendees of the Natural Hair Show

About LexiWithTheCurls

Starting off in 2008 on Youtube, Lexi decided to start a blog CurlsCoilsAndKinks.com. She provides hair style tutorials, product reviews, and natural hair conversations. In addition to her blog and videos, she hosts several natural hair events and is expanding her brand.

About MahoganyKnots:

Having over 10 years of experience with natural hair, and realizing no two natural heads are alike, MahoganyKnots brings two unique perspectives and information on natural hair care, styling, and product reviews as well as sneak peeks into hair and beauty happenings around the country!

About Me, My Hair, & The City

Me, My Hair & The City provides its readers a fresh take on beauty, style, and natural hair. With product reviews, recent event recaps, style advice, and hair care tips, this beauty blog is a one stop shop for all things fab!

Women’s Business Development Center Presents 13th Annual Child Care Business Expo

2011-05-02T06:25:00.000-07:00

By: Iya Bakare

On Saturday, May 21, 2011, the 13^th Annual Child Care Expo will take place at the Chicago Hilton & Towers in Chicago.

Sponsored by the Robert M. McCormick Foundation, Fifth Third Bank and Southwest Airlines, the expo hosts as a resource center for child care business entrepreneurs and will pay tribute to child care providers and activists in the child care community. Presented in English and Spanish by the Women’s Business Development Center (www.WBDC.org), the expo includes an annual Child Care Applause Breakfast and luncheon, featuring keynote speaker Sondra Solarte of FOX Chicago. In addition, the luncheon will feature panel discussions and workshops by child care expert Tom Copeland of the National Association for Family Child Care and over 50 booths of various businesses and vendors.

The cost for the Child Care Business Expo registration is $45, which includes registration, the workshops and materials, and both breakfast and lunch. On-site registration is $75 and is based on availability. For more information and to register online, please visit www.WBDC.org or call

312-853-3477, ext. 290.

Eating Healthy? Stay on Track!

2011-04-28T12:38:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Trying to eat “right” can be a daunting task and by “right,” I mean healthy. As I get older, I’m finding that both terms are becoming more and more subjective. Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s obvious that eating a dozen of Krispy Kreme doughnuts isn’t neither healthy nor right when it comes to your eating habits, but just because you have one of those treats doesn’t necessarily mean that you shatter all of your hopes of being on the right path with your diet.

Most foods, just like with almost everything in life, are okay if they’re taken within moderation. I know you’ve heard it one million times, but it’s true. Just like with the above example, even though you have plenty of healthier options other than a doughnut, having only one is far better than going all in. The same is true with all of the other treats and enticing foods that we try so hard to stay away from, because we’re told they are no good for us.

For most people who have already established a healthier diet, the hardest part can be maintaining it. It’s so easy to plan social events around food. When we want to hang out with a few friends at home, we wreck our brains trying to figure out what is on the menu. Should we order some pizzas or who’s going to fire up the grill? When we want to go out on a Friday night, if a night of clubbing is the plan, more than likely, dinner at a restaurant will be the precursor. When you’re trying to practice healthier eating habits, things like this could totally negate all of your hard work until that point.

The key is to remember that even though your friends may not make the same decisions that you do when it comes to food, it doesn’t mean that when you’re around them you shouldn’t stay on the right track. All you have to do is exercise self control. Easy, right?

Social Media Overload

2011-04-26T13:59:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

There are so many ways for people to communicate these days. There is Facebook, Twitter, E-mail, BBM (Blackberry Messenger), text messaging, Skype, and so many more. It seems like each week there is a new way to talk to someone without ever having to see them in person. Even though technology can be a convenience, there are both pros and cons that come with the territory. Let’s face it, we have technology to thank for the minimal amount of face-to-face interaction that occur. As of late, social media has easily become the most popular form of communication.

When it comes to technology and these new forms of communication, a con is not having that human interaction. Isolation is never a great feeling and just being around another person is sometimes what is needed. Conversely, a pro is the ability to connect with people who are not in your immediate proximity. Whether it’s romantic, family, or friendships, thanks to Skype, you’re able to have a date with a loved one at any given time.

I must say, after a while people can depend too much on social media. When it comes to face-to-face interaction, they tend not to have a clue about how to conduct themselves, because they’ve been so use to “hiding” behind a computer screen or a phone.

The Power of Music

2011-04-21T08:45:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

If there was one thing that united people of all races, ages, and beliefs, it would be music. In a world where there are many different opinions, many different perspectives, and very few things that people can agree upon, music is the one thing that has the power to bring us all together.

Michael Jackson sold out a number of concerts and if you were to look into the audience, you would see a diverse group of people when it comes to both age and race. Even if you were not a fan of the person, you were definitely a fan of his music, which touched many souls. During his lifetime, people fainted at the sight of him and after he left this Earth, some people went as far as to take their own lives.

Throughout my life, I have yet to meet someone who disliked MJ’s music. I have yet to meet someone who argued against him being crowned the “King of Pop.” For a long time, I couldn’t wrap my head around the thought that someone could have the ability to produce music that evoked so much emotion just by listening to a particular track.

As I got older, I begin to understand that music, despite the particular artist, is what held all the power. Music has the power to take you to a particular moment, good or bad, and for the length of the song, you re-live that moment whether you want to or not. Pretty powerful, right? With that said, if you’re feeling down, playing your favorite song could do wonders for your mood. The same is true if you’re on a high and you feel as though you need to take it down a notch, your favorite song could mellow you out.

We listen to music at parties. We listen to music in the car. We listen to music at the gym. We listen to music in the shower, while we cook, and while we clean. Some people even need music to lull them to sleep each night. So, what is it about music that has such an affect on us all? Maybe it’s the fact that even though many things will change, the mere existence of music will always remain the same.

Spring Shopping on a Budget

2011-04-19T13:36:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

As the weather gets nicer, it can only mean one thing: summer is near. Luckily, before those unbearably warm months, there's spring, which means new clothing for the wonderful weather. Since there are so many great stores, it makes you wonder if you can really look good this spring on a budget. Try not to panic, because there are plenty of options if you are looking for the latest trends for low prices. Here are a few:

H&M: This is my personal favorite! H&M is known for carrying the latest trends for low prices. As a bonus, they carry mens pieces, just in case you wanted to grab something for him, too. H&M will not disappoint, especially if you're searching for trendy pieces.

Marshalls/TJMaxx: Both stores have designer clothing for a bargain. You may have to shop a season beforehand, but the prices make it well worth it. Also, make sure you have a few hours to search the store for the pieces that are just right for you. Sometimes, both stores tend to be unorganized.

Akira: If you have a slightly larger budget, this is the place to shop. While prices may not be as "friendly," some items at Akira are reasonable. You just have to keep your eyes peeled. Akira stays on top of the latest trends, so it’s almost always a win-win situation.

As an alternative, I’ve been opened to the idea of shopping at consignment stores. Some people are against it, but it brings a whole new meaning to the phrase: “one man’s trash, is another man’s treasure.”

The Urban Wellness Project Presents: Safe is Sexy

2011-04-14T09:40:00.000-07:00

By: Samantha Battle

Manicures and pedicures, body massages, hair styling, and getting your make-up done by professionals was what many women and some men got to enjoy at the Safe is Sexy Aids Awareness event hosted by Actress, Erica Hubbard last month for National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.

Syreeta Talbert, founder and executive director of the Urban Wellness Project, put together the event in hopes of bringing awareness to HIV and AIDS in the African-American community. Talbert’s Urban Wellness Project provides health and wellness events promoting awareness of choices in health care.

“It’s about creating events that are fun and tangible, but at the same time a learning experience,” said Talbert.

Along with the pampering that guests got to experience, there were also performances and guest speakers. Singer Melody Angel performed a song, accompanied by her guitar, that she wrote specifically about the topic of HIV/AIDS. The performance was heartfelt, which resulted in an eruption of applause and cheer from the audience.

The guests also heard from guest speaker, Dr. Mildred Williamson of the Illinois Department of Public Health. She spoke about trying to eliminate the stigma that comes with HIV and AIDS.

“People living with HIV and AIDS around the country, they deserve our love and respect,” said Williamson. “One of the things that have moved this epidemic so deeply in our community is rejection based on stigma. We need to eliminate stigma in this country. The faster we eliminate stigma, the faster we can improve.”

Some guests felt the event was very educational and that more people need to know more about HIV and AIDS.

“It’s very important that young girls are knowledgeable of all STD’s especially HIV and AIDS because it’s spreading rapidly especially in the African-American community and how to use protection right,” said DeVante Daniels, a guest and designer vendor of Unique’z sunglasses.

Hostess, Erica Hubbard also spoke about HIV and AIDS stating that, “It’s so important to get to the doctor.”

There were also two guest poets who performed poems specifically about AIDS. London A’lexus performed a poem about a woman in Africa that contracted AIDS. The room was quiet as London got into character and gave a heartfelt performance. Everyone applauded her as she finished. The other poet named Brenda Matthews performed a poem, incorporating music.

The event wasn’t only about having a good time, but also a learning experience. There was free on-site HIV/AIDS testing and gift bags were given to guest filled with information on where to go to get tested, condoms, and other health related items.

“One night of passion can be a lifetime of pain and it’s not worth it,” Daniels said.

Singles Have to Eat, Too

2011-04-12T11:03:00.000-07:00

By:Isis Nicole

Living the single life is only going to be as good as you make it. Who says a gal (or a guy) can’t make the most of it by cooking a nice meal for one?

Portion & Pleasure: Having the right amount of food that also satisfies the belly is the most important part of a “solo-dolo” meal. When cooking for one, there is no such thing as too much, only too little. So, as long as you have tupperware and a fridge, leftovers should be your new best friend!

Share & Socialize: If leftovers are often wasted, make use of your loved one’s company. Plan a meal and invite guests over. Bonding over great food is always a plus! Who knows, you may have the chance to meet someone new.

Single’s Desserts: Sweets are the best treat, but they can also become problematic if you eat too many. So, as a single who enjoys sugar, try to remember that less is more. If you're only cooking for one, consider baking in a smaller pan. Snacks like cookies and cupcakes are perfect to make for one, because you can control how many you want to prepare.

Where's the Respect?

2011-04-07T04:28:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

In the entertainment industry, you would think there would be a common respect among fellow artists because everyone is pursuing a dream. They’re all practicing the same craft, so why not get along? While a common bond typically forms good relationships, it sometimes does the complete opposite when it comes to the entertainment industry. Celebrities take “friendly competition” to a different level.

Today, there are “Twitter beefs” where celebs use Twitter as an outlet. Tweeting each other directly or indirectly has become common. With that said, some of this behavior has resulted in celebrities not being seen in a good light. Oftentimes, these “cyber-space beefs” have to be removed--literally.

Recently, Chris Brown and Raz-B, a former member of B2K, Ciara and Rihanna, and everyone’s favorite, Lil Kim and Nicki Minaj have all duked it out via Twitter. Of the three, the two female rappers have elevated their beef beyond Twitter by publicly dissing each other, making “diss” records, and getting other people involved. How it originated is not the question. The real question is when will it end? All of this has left me thinking, where’s the respect?

Rising Cost of Higher Education: Is College for Everyone?

2011-04-05T06:43:00.000-07:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

You could probably go around a room and the answers will be split: half the people would probably believe that college isn’t for everyone, while the remainder would think differently. However, there’s actually a recent study that says that college isn’t for everyone. "Pathways to Prosperity," a study conducted by Harvard University, drives this point home with its findings. Furthermore, the results of the study show that most jobs don’t even require a bachelor’s degree for employment: 36 percent have a high-school degree or less, 33 percent have some college, and 30 percent have a bachelor’s degree or higher. Additionally, college students who ranked among the bottom quarter of their high-school classes, 80 percent of them will probably never get a bachelor’s degree or even a two-year associate’s degree, according to the U.S. Department of Education. So, what’s the alternative for them?

Then there’s the issue of paying for college for those who choose to attend, but as I stated before, college degrees aren’t necessary for a number of jobs. “Of the 30 jobs projected to grow at the fastest rate over the next decade in the United States, only seven typically require a bachelor’s degree,” according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics. A fascinating statistic, right? Going to a four-year university, a community college, or just getting a job seemed to always be an option for upcoming high-school graduates. For some students, the reality is that it may not be an option anymore.

He’s Back: Chris Brown’s F.A.M.E Debuts at #1

2011-03-31T09:20:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

It’s been years since I’ve walked into a store to buy an actual album. With internet radio, the shift to buying music online with iTunes, and the fact that music is no longer what it use to be, I just haven’t been excited about “New Music Tuesday” in a very long time, but last week was different. After a long day at the office, I rushed to Target to purchase Chris Brown’s much-anticipated F.A.M.E album.

As a music lover, it’s quite easy for me to separate the music from the person. For this reason, I was intrigued to see what F.A.M.E had to offer. Prior to the release date, the uproar on Twitter played a huge role in my decision to contribute to Chris’ album sales. The excitement that “Team Breezy” exhibited, somehow had an affect on me; I was in.

I got in my car, popped in the CD, and I was instantly satisfied. I was already familiar with a number of the tracks, because they were previously released as singles. "Deuces," "No BS," "Yeah 3x," and "Look At Me Now" were already hits in my eyes, but there were a few other ballads that took my heart. In "Up 2 You," he sings about how he’s learned from the mistakes of his past relationships and he won’t mess up the new one. While "All Back," which happens to be my favorite, hits a home run as he sings about wanting a relationship back after a break up; I’m sure a lot of us can relate. F.A.M.E is not just an album filled with sappy love songs; in fact, a majority of the tracks have crazy beats that make you want to stop what you’re doing to dance.

Whether you want to call it Fans Are My Everything or Forgiving All of My Enemies, F.A.M.E is a must-have. After selling 270,000 copies in its first week, followed by an exceptional performance on ABC’s Dancing With the Stars, it’s safe to say that Chris is letting his music speak for itself.

Azealia Banks: A Breath of Fresh Air

2011-03-29T18:36:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

I’m always anxious to find something musically refreshing. Luckily, Bronx-native Azealia Banks is my most recent addition, quenching my thirst. Her boldness is contagious, her sound is authentic, and her cool, calm demeanor is bad, in a good way. As you know, talented female rappers are hard to find, but there is no doubt that Azealia Banks is a jewel. She makes spitting over tracks sound effortless, delving into multiple genres in just three minutes. How can someone so beautiful be so gangster with lyrics….seriously?! I’m hoping to hear much more from her and other independent label artists. For now, I'm patiently awaiting Azealia's much anticipated debut album on XL Recordings. Goodbye phonies, hello Hip Hop!

Spring Cleaning: Your Trash Can Be Someone’s Treasure

2011-03-24T10:00:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

When I was younger, my grandmother and I would clean the house every Sunday. She would wake up super early, turn on some old school R&B, and we would have ourselves a good old time. I cherish those memories now and luckily, those days have followed me into adulthood. I still clean like crazy at least once a week.

So, when people say that it’s time for Spring cleaning, it’s just another week for me. However, for those who need to clear the clutter, it’s that time of year again. A change in the season somehow inspires people to get rid of unwanted items, but while packing up all the things that are no longer any use to you, don’t throw them in the trash, give them away. Remember, one persons trash is another person’s treasure.

There are many options if you're trying to give your belongings a new home. For starters, you could give your old items to someone you know: friends, family, or friends of friends. You could donate the items to the Salvation Army or a local thrift store, and most of the time, you can write the donation off on your taxes. Lastly, you could trade your old clothing for cash at places like Plato’s Closet.

So, within these upcoming weeks, find some time to enlist some help, turn on your favorite music, and kill two birds with one stone: a clean start plus some bonding time!

Naturally Beautiful

2011-03-22T06:53:00.000-07:00

By: Isis Nicole

At the start of the semester, I typically take part in the business of "creamy crack and tracks." It’s just a guilty pleasure, perm and weave! To be completely honest, this choice is not a need, it is a want. I want to manage my hair and remain fabulous. It’s so hard not to use it when all you have to do is unwrap your hair and go. However, I do make a turnaround come early signs of Spring. The weather is less harsh, the mood is just right, and my hair deserves to be free. With that said, I thought it would be a great idea to share three of my favorite blogs dedicated to natural hair and beauty. Here, you can find ways to create natural hairstyles for those moments when you just want to be you.

Afroniquely You

If natural hair were a religion, Afroniquely You would be its sacred manual. Admirable for its enthusiasm on natural hair, this is the one-stop shop for encouragement on what makes women of color unique. Funky or fierce, Afroniquely You is quite the place to learn more about the progression of natural hair of any texture. You can even learn how to turn a head or two.

AfroBella

If you have questions that need to be answered, Afrobella is where you should go. Even if you happen to be more advanced in your natural hair experience, this can be good for you, too. It’s the place you want to go to stay on top of new styles and hair products. Don’t be afraid to experiment!

Black Girl With Long Hair

Black Girl With Long Hair is pretty much as straight forward as its title. Open to black, Latina and multi-racial women who embrace natural hair, this is one of the most appealing websites for natural hair photos and interviews! I also love their commitment to discussing various realities of natural hair and the interaction with readers.

The Appeal of St. Patty’s Day!

2011-03-17T13:47:00.000-07:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

You would have to be living underneath a rock if you have not realized that today is St. Patrick’s Day. For most people, it means wearing green, being proud to be Irish and everyone’s favorite part, drinking! While this holiday is celebrated nationwide with parades, I would go out on a limb to say that most people who celebrate it, have the slightest clue about it's history.

In Chicago, there’s a parade each year, tons of people wear green and the Chicago River is dyed green just for the fun of it (I wonder how they get it back to it’s original color). This year, in particular, is even more special considering the above average temperatures we are experiencing in the area. In Chicago, warm weather is it’s own reason to celebrate!

St. Patty’s Day’s popularity is even more surprising, especially when you consider at least half of the people who celebrate it don't have an ounce of Irish blood in their systems. However, I guess you get a pass if you know someone who’s Irish, right? I’m sure that’s a good enough reason for anyone to have an excuse to drink, in public at that!

It seems that this is the one holiday that brings all ethnicities, all ages and all religions together through a common love for celebrating. For one day, we can all party in one place, hopefully in peace, and have fun!

Oh yeah, the Irish holiday is celebrated on March 17 and is considered a religious feast day. Irish families attend church, wear green, dance, drink and feast.

A Reality Check: Some Entertainers Bringing in More Cash Than Teachers

2011-03-15T07:33:00.000-07:00

By: Songine' Clarke

In elementary school, I remember reading an article about the millions of dollars celebrities and professional athletes make each year. All I could think was: if I could dribble or throw a ball or make one hit record, I could make a million dollars, instantly becoming successful.

Ironically, that same day, I was in my fourth grade class with one of my favorite teachers, who happens to still be my favorite, but somehow, it never crossed my mind how much he was getting paid for changing children’s futures in a great way.

According to Forbes.com, Lady Gaga will make $100 million in 2011, which is unfortunately a salary that a teacher probably will never see. According to the Chicago Public Schools website, with a bachelor’s degree, the starting salary for a teacher is $50,577. Of course, when you think about it, celebrities and entertainers get their money from their supporters and endorsements, whereas teachers get their money from the state. Unfortunately, this is a reality check and quite often, it’s something that we tend not to think about. Why are teachers, who are in many ways responsible for creating doctors, lawyers, entertainers, and some athletes, making significantly less than the people we adore so much?

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2011-03-13T18:58:00.000-07:00

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Welcome to the March/April 2011 issue of GlossMagazineOnline.com! It's Spring time, when things are fresh and new––just like this issue of the online magazine writtenBY you and FOR you.   Once again, we thank you for continuing to turn to GMO for the latest news, hot topics, and creative pieces written by young, up-and-coming talents just like you! So, go ahead and flip through the virtual pages of YOUR online magazine!

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Video: Disney Dreamers Academy Executive Champion Tracey D. Powell on "The Steve Harvey Morning Show"

2011-03-12T17:50:00.000-08:00

Here, Executive Champion Tracey D. Powell tells Disney Dreamers Academy parents, and the listening audience, about the academy.

The Fourth Annual Disney Dreamers Academy welcomed over 100 high-school students from across the country to the Walt Disney World Resort in Orlando, Fl.

Video: Raven-Symone at the Disney Dreamers Academy

2011-03-12T17:38:00.000-08:00

"Be specific in your dreams. You have to make sure that what you want to do is something that we need in the world." -Raven-Symone

Video: Gospel Superstar Yolanda Adams on Dreams and the Disney Dreamers Academy

2011-03-12T17:12:00.000-08:00

"Just something that one of those people said could make a difference in whether a child says, ‘my dream is not possible’ or ‘I can do this.’ That’s why it was important for me to be here. " -Yolanda Adams, March 6, 2011

TV: It's Just Not the Same

2011-03-10T07:38:00.000-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Nowadays, everyone claims to be busy, having crazy schedules that leave minimal time for fun or even sleep. Between work, school, family, and friends, there is little to no time for the simple pleasures, like sitting in front of the TV to watch your favorite show. Most people watch online or record the show to watch at a later date; Hardly anyone has the time to watch an episode when it originally airs. Furthermore, it seems like people are just not watching as much TV, if at all. I’m left wondering if this can be attributed to busy schedules or the lack of quality scripted shows.

It’s no secret that reality TV has taken over the airwaves, as well as most of our lives. If you miss an episode of your favorite one, you most likely avoid any and all conversation regarding that episode until you’ve had time to watch it. Let’s face it, for some odd reason, these shows engulf us, whether it’s by choice or by force. The events that occur in each episode are the topic on the phone, via social networking sites, and at the dinner table. Unfortunately, if you don’t watch a particular show, you tend to feel left out, which might lead to you watching a marathon of a show that you claimed you’d only watch over your dead body.

The question is: are we watching reality TV because more times than not it’s our only option? Gone are the days of quality scripted shows like Fresh Prince, Martin, My Wife & Kids, Cosby Show, A Different World, and One on One. While we have shows like The Game, Are We There Yet, and House of Payne, they pale in comparison to the amount of reality TV shows that exist.

Now, I have no clue what this means for the future of television, but luckily we can relive those shows that we love so much by purchasing DVD box sets or watching reruns online over and over again. Thank you technology!

Dr. Steve Perry at Disney's Dreamers Academy

2011-03-08T07:49:00.000-08:00

Dr. Steve Perry, educator, author, motivational speaker and founder of Capital Prep talks about why the Disney Dreamers Academy is so important, as well as misconceptions in education.

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Fashion Take-Off

2011-03-08T06:32:00.000-08:00

By: Songine’ Clarke

On the night of March 4, 2011, Columbia College Chicago’s Fashion Elite Modeling Organization (F.E.M.O) held its first fashion show called “Fashion Take-Off”. The sold-out show went well with nine scenes and one performance by Alya James, who sung two songs. There was a mix of both Chicago-based designers and designers who are students at Columbia, as well. Boyett by Terrell Golston (Jewelry by Sabrina), YELL by Danyell Hopson and Bianca Ashley, Star Studded by Mickey Ellis, Lashe’ Boutique by Lasheena Marand, Columbia Student Collection by Shelby, Halley, and Nina, Styling by BET Stylist Sam Desalu, Adnanam Femme by Maranda Gresham, Fame and Fortune by Brandon, and Calleea’ Vatein by F.E.M.O’s president Lenese Griffin (Jewelry by Oapre Golden) were all of the show's participants. F.E.M.O is a production and modeling team that puts on various fashion related events at Columbia College Chicago. F.E.M.O also equips aspiring models with the proper tools and training to be successful in the fashion industry.

GlossMagazineOnline at Disney's Dreamers Academy

2011-03-04T03:54:00.000-08:00

Steve Harvey welcomed over 100 high school students selected to participate in Disney's Dreamers Academy March 3 - 6, 2011 at Walt Disney World Resort

Full GMO coverage of the academy is in the March/April issue of GlossMagazineOnline.com

Check out some extra images from the inspiring event!

Inside Cinderella's Castle - Dreams do come true!

Welcome Dreamers!

The Stage is Set!

"Dex" - The Disney Imagineer

THE Castle!

Micky & Tracey

Mikki Taylor! - Essence Magazine

GMO in the building!

Steve Harvey welcomes the students!

Tracey D. Powell, Exec. Champion, DDA

Yolanda Adams stopped by to offer some inspiration!

Brandon Jacobs, running back of the New Giants with a Disney Dreamer. Photo by Matt Stroshane

Carolina Panthers Running Back DeAngelo Williams with a Dreamer. Photo By Matt Stroshane

Motivational speaker Jonathan Sprinkles, Karli Harvey, Brandi Harvey, CNN commentator Dr. Steve Perry, Essence Magazine's Editor-at-Large Mikki Taylor, gospel singer Yolanda Adams and Essence Communications, Inc. President Michelle Ebanks. Photo by Todd Anderson

The American Idol Experience

Chef Jeff Henderson gets interviewed by some aspiring journalists.

Actor Chris Massey (Zoey 10) and Tamera Mowry (Sister, Sister) answers Dreamer's questions about the entertainment business.

A couple fashion designer dreamers share their vision with a beauty & fashion editor icon --

Mikki Taylor.

Pose!

It just so happened to also be ESPN Weekend at Hollywood Studios. Dreamers sat in on a special edition of "Inside the Huddle" - Running Back Edition w/Colin Cowherd, DeAngelo Williams, Brandon Jacobs and LaDainian Tomlinson.

An aspiring journalist shows us the media package the Jour Dreamers produced during the weekend.

Dreamers posing in support of Disney Dreamers Academy sponsor Coca-Cola.

Tracey D. Powell, executive champion, Disney's Dreamers Academy, asks Lawrence Smith, director of finance, Disney Vacation Club, and former Dreamer, 18-year-old Tevyn Cole, owner of "School Me" Clothing, to define success.

“I want an internationally recognized clothing brand. I want ‘School Me’ to be the next biggest trend. My goal with School Me is to make it cool to be smart,” said Tevyn Cole.

American Idol Alum Kimberley Locke chats it up with a few Disney Dreamers.

Little journalist in training.

Uh oh Glossy Staff, he's coming for our jobs!

Gas Prices: We'll Keep Complaining, but We'll Keep Paying

2011-03-03T07:31:00.000-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Within the past week, gas prices have risen more than 20 cents in most places nationwide. Now, this isn't a revelation that only I have witnessed, but since it seems to be the topic of almost every conversation that I’ve had lately, it’s only right to address it.

When most people see the rising cost of gas, while passing the local gas station, the immediate reaction is “what in the world is going on?” I highly doubt people delve into the real reason behind us paying more at the pump each week.

The sudden hike is no doubt attributed to the rise of crude oil’s price, which happens to be the highest it’s been in the previous three years. How does more than $100 a barrel sound? Not good!

Of course gas prices are different depending on where you live, but places like California and Hawaii are already on the brink of $4.00 per gallon, while Montana and Wyoming are closer to $3.00 per gallon. Most of us are somewhere in between, but I’m sure we can agree that when $3.00 per gallon seems appealing, something is truly wrong. Whatever it is, I hope it gets fixed soon!

Many driver’s are left complaining, because in reality, what’s the other options? Public transportation? Car pooling? Minimize driving? While these all sound good, for most people, these options aren’t realistic. So, even though we complain, we’ll continue to pay, no matter how high it gets.

Women of Colour in the Media

2011-03-01T11:29:00.000-08:00

By: Isis Nicole

"Given the legacy of images created of black women, it is an especially complex task for contemporary black women to define their own image, one that necessarily both incorporates and subverts the stereotypes, myths, facts, and fantasies that have preceded them."- Carla Williams

When it comes to my thoughts on the portrayal of black women in the media, I take a minute to reflect and decide that it all depends on what's in front of me. If I happen to see a program on TV, it just so happens that women of colour usually come off as fierce, self-sufficient, passionate about their careers, and respected. But if I happen to see a video on something like World Star Hip-Hop, those women blatantly hold themselves to two things: sex and money. There’s nothing provocative or groundbreaking about my opinion, but I do think that it’s important to question why, on the subject of media, is there a standard only applicable for two types of coloured women─ the first being the strong, educated, independent who refuses support from anyone that isn’t herself also known as the caretaker. Or the second, being the woman who is a ride-or-die type chick, the idealized female desire who denies her intelligence and dignity in exchange for masculine dominance. I also feel that it’s important to address why so many women accommodate to being possessions of sexual satisfaction without any respect? Don’t get me twisted, there ain’t nothing wrong with feeling sexy, being sexy, and showing off your sexy. Now, I do mean sexy NOT skanky, but what about earning respect? Is this okay? Although my categorizations (self-sufficient versus sexual fantasy) give separate definitions to each type of woman, both encompass a sense of sacrifice of a coloured woman’s mind, body, and soul that is quite sad and lonely. Someone has got to make a difference.

Our Children, Our Future: Take Matters Into Your Own Hands

2011-02-24T11:12:00.000-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

As of late, many thoughts have been flowing through this brain of mine but one seems to bother me the most. As a person that has many family members who aren’t “skinny,” weight and healthy food choices are always a part of some conversation when we all get together. I look at the youngest children in my family and all I can think about is where did we go wrong?

I look at my younger cousins and I see the food choices they make on the regular: pop over juice, juice over water, chips over carrots, and candy over fruit. Although it’s rather disturbing to me, I’m at odds with myself when trying to decide if depriving them of these items is a great idea. Now, don’t get me wrong, I know right from wrong, but is it fair for me to say that they can’t have chips when I practically lived off chips when I was their age? Not to mention, I took multiple trips to the corner store as a child and none of my purchases consisted of water, carrots, fruit, or even juice for that matter.

I like to think that part of being a child is being able to eat whatever you want. We’re told that our metabolism is fast, our “baby teeth” will fall out and that it’s just “baby fat” that won’t follow us into adulthood. However, this notion is seeming more like a myth these days. In fact, I didn’t know whether to be happy or sad when I saw a little girl on the treadmill in the gym yesterday.

Times have definitely changed and today, we’re seeing more overweight children and many celebrities, activists, and politicians who are supporting initiatives for children to live healthier lifestyles. However, in the meantime, as parents, family members, and someone that these children interact with on a regular basis, maybe it’s time to take matters into our own hands.

Marsha Ambrosius' "Far Away" Hits Close to Home

2011-02-22T11:41:00.000-08:00

By: Isis Nicole

“Far Away” by Marsha Ambrosius without a doubt leaves a powerful impression on friendships, relationships, love, and loss. The song itself is a genuine piece and the visuals compliment its sincerity. As I was watching the video, I kept thinking to myself, what a beautiful way to address something so sensitive in the lives of just about everyone. No matter where you stand regarding sexual preferences, it’s not impossible to agree on the reality that hate crimes are ignorant and that it would hurt to lose someone you love.

Everything Doesn’t Need an Upgrade

2011-02-17T08:11:00.000-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

While catching up on some news, I ran across some rather disturbing information. Apparently, Monopoly is the newest casualty in the world of technology.

The joy of holding paper money in your hand is gone. The great feeling you get when you land on “community chest” or “chance” is gone. The freedom to move your own body as much as you want is gone. Instead, a debit card will let you know your balance, “community chest” and “chance” is all done electronically, and an infrared sensor will detect your every move. So, that trip to the bathroom may be out of the question. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that there’s a huge tower that sits in the middle of the board. You know, the middle of the board where you use to roll the dice, which is no longer a feature.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge fan of technology, but while stumbling upon this information, I was quite disturbed for a number of reasons:

1. Looking at your huge pile of money, while the person who landed on your property has a thin, sickly stack of bills is the best part of the game. Take that away, then where’s the excitement when someone lands on your property. The idea is to make the most money and have other players envy you. A debit card doesn’t have the same impact.

2. Having no dice in monopoly is like having a laptop with no internet service. What’s the point? Rolling actual dice makes you feel like a big shot, especially when you get doubles!

3. I know I’m not the only one that gets excited when I land on “chance” or “community chest.” As soon as I pull the card, I always look at the other players to make sure they’re not trying to look at it, too. I know, it’s weird, but it always feels like it’s a secret, at least until you read it out loud.

4. Last, but certainly not least, I’m not sure how comfortable I am with sitting in one place for too long. For this reason, I’m equally not as comfortable with having a 10-inch computer tower telling me what to do. Maybe my mom turned her back and I want to move 10 spaces and not two, that’s MY prerogative, right?

Maybe I’m just getting old, but I’ll always prefer the “old” version that’s sitting in my hall closest. I’ll leave the “new” monopoly to the younger generations!

Single Girl Swag on Valentine’s Day!

2011-02-14T10:40:00.000-08:00

By: Songine' Clarke

Being single on Valentine’s Day for as long as I can remember, I’ve found ways of dealing with not having a special someone on Valentine’s Day. There are plenty of ways a single can bear without having a Valentine on this holiday. If you’re able to treat yourself to a day of being your own Valentine, you should. Whether it’s getting your nails done, buying yourself that perfume you love or buying yourself a nice piece of jewelry; there’s no need to have someone shower you with gifts. If you can’t lavish yourself with gifts, then you can find friends who are single this holiday as well and just have fun. There’s also the option of staying in the house and having ladies night or going out with the ladies to “paint the town red.” If you don’t do anything this Valentine’s day, I would like for you to at least do this one thing: try to be content with being single this Valentine’s Day!

It’s Supposed to Snow in the Winter, Right?

2011-02-10T09:30:00.001-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

For the last week, the talk around the country has been all about the weather. I don’t know about you, but it’s starting to drive me insane. The snow itself doesn’t bother me, but the talk about the snow does. It probably bothers me too much. In fact, anytime someone attempts to talk to me about “all the snow” or the “below zero temps,” I respond with a dumb look that says, “Hello, it’s winter!”

I’ve lived in Chicago for 25 years, yet it still amazes me how each winter, Chicagoans act like the cold and all that comes along with it is something brand new. Now, don’t get me wrong, the snowstorm that we endured last week was classic, for lack of a better word. In most places, there was at least 2 feet of snow that blanketed the streets, sidewalks, expressways and cars. Businesses closed down early on Tuesday, the city shut down on Wednesday and by Thursday, some schools and businesses were still closed. So, it had to be epic, right?

Epic may be the appropriate adjective considering Lake Shore Drive and Chicago has been getting so much attention lately. To my surprise, the two were trending worldwide on Yahoo and on Twitter simultaneously. As promised, I’m sure this is one winter that will go down in history and finally I can add this to the list of things that I lived to see right after the first African-American President. Oh, yeah, he’s from Chicago, too.

It usually takes quite a bit to surprise me, especially when it comes to something as uncontrollable as the weather. So, I tend to stay as far away from the “weather” conversations as possible. It seems like a waste of time to talk about something that is undoubtedly out of our control. However, what would surprise me is if Chicago got 2 feet of snow in July. Yes, that would definitely surprise me. Only then, I would attempt to engage in a “weather” conversation. So, until that happens, spare me the agony.

Review of “What Happens in My House” by Patrice Howard

2011-02-04T14:05:00.000-08:00

By: Frances Moffett

“What happens in my house, stays in my house.”

For many African-American households, this saying could have been engraved on a plaque hanging right above the front doorway—a stern reminder that everything that goes on between those walls is to stay there. But this same saying can also lead to years of lies and secrecy, which is what rising author Patrice Howard details in her debut novel, “What Happens in My House.”

The book introduces you to the Seaborn family, a tight, close-knit unit whose roots were laid in the church. The story begins with the main character and narrator Noelle discovering that her teenage sister is pregnant. On her search to determine who the unborn child’s father is, she finds out that there is more to the situation that she initially thought. Noelle eventually unlocks a history of secrets including incest and sexual abuse—something she hadn’t expected from her “God-fearing” family.

Soon, she is faced with the decision to continue to sweep these transgressions under the rug or reveal the truth. The story follows Noelle and her family as they come to terms with the ugliness with which they are faced.

“What Happens in My House” is an enthralling work that tells a story we often don’t hear in the African-American community. It embraces the taboo subject of sexual abuse and gives a real account of how it affects not only the victim but those who live with and love that person. It also attests to the real-life notion that not all stories end with a “happily ever after.”

A Jam-Packed SENSATIONNEL Event

2011-02-01T06:33:00.000-08:00

By Isis Nicole & Bonita Holmes

‘Twas a ‘SENSATIONNEL’ evening in Chicago at the Sheraton Hotel, filled with gifted beauticians, beautiful models and fine dining. Up until the SENSATIONNEL New Year’s Party, this previous Sunday I had only imagined the makings of a quick weave hair show. Let me tell you folks, my imagination was fulfilled. Entering into the event just a few minutes shy of being on time, I got a chance to peek at the young women gathered around the foyer emulating the dress of animals found in jungles. By this time, I could tell that this was just the beginning of my electrified hair fantasies.

Posters of women with neatly styled SENSATIONNEL brand hair filled the second floor of the Sheraton Hotel while media, hairstylists, beauticians, models and onlookers awaited the start of the show. Women with pink collared shirts and short professionally styled hair directed guests to their seats. The ballroom featured at least 100 tables elegantly decorated with dinnerware, white tablecloths and neatly crafted centerpieces. More posters of women modeling SENSATIONNEL brand hair filled the ballroom, while gift bags worth over $150 nearly consumed all walking space. SENSATIONNEL models opened the show with a performance of the song, “Whip My Hair” by Willow Smith. The party had begun.

SENSATIONNEL models were selected through YK Management Inc., a Chicago-based modeling agency, started by Yoshimi Kiosha in 2009. “SENSATIONNEL hair hired me to select the models for the event,” said Kiosha, who considered the SENSATIONNEL hair show to be among some of the high-end shows she’s ever done. The models wore black leggings, brightly colored wigs and black shirts with glittered writing that read Bump, Start To Finish, Premium Now and Goddess—all hair brands by SENSATIONNEL.

The show started with a performance by the Capri Beauty College who gave the audience a Barbie-themed showcase. Each model rocked a unique, polychromatic hairstyle, tutu skirts and swayed across the stage mimicking Nicki Minaj songs throughout. After a performance interval, Ms. Roberts Beauty Academy took the stage with a lion king-themed performance that featured exotic animal-like hair. This performance was the only one that featured plus-sized models. Lastly, the Dudley Beauty College gave a celebrity themed performance, which featured those impersonating Etta James and Ike and Tina Turner.

Following SENSATIONNEL’s hair show was a tap dance routine by Chicago’s own, Madd Rhythms. Each dancer entered the stage unaccompanied merely to create a unified group. What really got the crowd’s excitement flowing again was their tap dance break down to Chicago’s house music. Madd Rhythms’ performance was clever, full of energy and stayed true to its Chicago roots. Later that evening, hip hop dance group The Industry hit the stage with a routine that unfortunately was not as hard hitting as the rest of the show. Nevertheless, The Industry stayed dedicated to the fierce and fun ambiance of the night exclusively with a smile.

Then, there was dessert. Singer and Actor Terrell Carter, known for his appearance in Tyler Perry’s “Diary of a Mad Black Woman,” graced the stage tall, dark, handsome and in an unbuttoned shirt. Ladies sighed and smiled as he continued with a love song, “Better Than” inspired by his ideals on how to treat a woman. His voice was passionate and powerful with remnants of church.

Closing the performances was singer Shirley Murdock who was the absolute icing on the cake! I have to be honest, I was a little surprised when she started off singing her hit single “As We Lay,” but it was a pleasant experience she and the audience shared as they reminisced with the words of the song. Her voice was uplifting and her presence was that of a diva. She owned it! Shirley Murdock then took a moment out to encourage the audience with the song “Stand.” Her voice filled the room strong and heartfelt, leaving some beauticians standing on their feet. It was the perfect ending to a happy new year.

Moving Forward Together: 2011 SOTU address

2011-01-27T12:23:00.000-08:00

By: Ebony L. McCline

Tuesday night, I sat in anticipation for many reasons. First and foremost, I was anxious to see what my President had to say to his country, the good old U.S. of A. Even though I was eager to hear the State of the Union address, I was equally as anxious to see how many people I knew would actually watch it. The reason for this deep thought can be summed up in two words: “The Game.”

No, not the championship game that broke so many Chicagoans hearts, that was Sunday. No, not the Superbowl, it’s a little too early. “The Game” that I’m referring to is the television show. Now, I know what you’re thinking, what does that have to do with the State of the Union address? Well, if you’re a fan of the show, then you’d know that Tuesday nights are owned by, “The Game.” The President’s speech wouldn’t be the length of two hours, but I was sure that some part of it would conflict with this popular television show. So, I waited to see the outcome.

I was delighted to learn that by the end of President Barack Obama’s speech, #StateoftheUnion and #sotu were trending on Twitter. In addition to this revelation, Facebook statuses were consistently being updated about his speech and not that television show that we all seem to adore.

As my President delivered his speech in front of a Chamber of both Republicans and Democrats, he offered hope among other things. Those in the audience seemed to at least appreciate the things he said, even if they disagreed. Throughout the address, unity seemed to be a common thread. There were a number of one-liners, but my favorite speaks for itself: “We will move forward together or not at all.”

Obama spoke passionately about a number of issues. He encouraged our nation to “win the future.” Innovation was a key point, as he stressed the importance of Americans putting their creativity to use. He encouraged parents to play a role in education, insinuating that teaching doesn’t stop or start in the classrooms. Parents are teachers, as well.

Additionally, as America lacks in the quality of math and science, by 2021 the goal is to have 100,000 new teachers trained in math, science and technology. Lastly, pointing out America’s “D” on infrastructure, Obama spoke about South Korea’s extensive Internet access, China’s new trains and airports and European countries investments in their roads. He plans to continue to rebuild for the future, which in turn will create more jobs in the construction industry.

The hour long speech included many more goals and proposals, but as he spoke, I waited. I listened carefully, but I still wanted more. Finally, he admitted that it wouldn’t be easy, which ironically put me at ease. After that statement, I knew that even though he wanted to instill hope for our future, he was also being realistic, which meant a great deal to me.

New Year, New Beginnings

2011-01-18T07:40:00.000-08:00

By Ebony L. McCline

As daylight creeped into night, guests started to flow into ThreePeas Arts Loungein Chicago’s South Loop Thursday evening. One guest turned into two, and two guests turned into many, as a night of raffles, networking, drinks and idle conversation filled the room. In addition to celebrating a new year of GlossMagazineOnline, we partnered with Dime Child Foundation in honor of N
ational Mentoring Month. Now, this wasn’t a reason for us to simply “toot
our own horns,” it was more importantly an event to acknowledge those that make each issue of the magazine possible.

As guests filled the cozy Three Peas Arts Lounge, colorful artwork graced the walls, wine circulated, music played softly in the distance and beautiful people struggled to cease intriguing conversations when the time came to get their much-needed attention. Trust me, I know.

As I stood in front of the crowd to thank all who made the event successful, chatter turned into whispers and whispers eventually became silence. I didn’t take offense, I took it as a sign that everything was going as planned. I was delighted that everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves.

As a bonus, Bon Bon Vie donated chic bags for winners of the raffles. No, the bags weren’t the only surprise. Inside all of the bags was an official “Get Glossy” v-neck and a book from authors who were featured in the magazine.

It seemed like time was moving extremely fast, before I knew it, it was time to call it a night. People were saying their good-byes as we thanked those who came to show their support.

Even though it was freezing outside and snow filled the streets, I had a warm feeling exiting Three Peas that Thursday night. I was proud of how the night turned out. I was anxious to see what others thought. I was nervous about the future. While all of these emotions consumed my body at once, I knew that there wasn’t anywhere for GMO to go but up. I’m positive about one thing: we love a challenge and we’re all ready for the top.

Check out more coverage of the 2011 GMO Launch Party at Three Peas Art Lounge!

Read Flair TV's Chundria's post on the Chicago Now Blog!

Welcome to the January/February 2011 Glossy Blog

2011-01-09T19:46:00.000-08:00

Welcome to the January/February 2011 issue of GlossMagazineOnline.com! It’s a new year and that means a new issue of GMO––the online magazine written BY you and FOR you.   Once again, we thank you for continuing to turn to GMO for the latest news, hot topics, and creative pieces written by young, up-and-coming talents just like you! So, go ahead and flip through the virtual pages of YOUR online magazine!

 In This Issue:

and so much more!

So what are you waiting for?? Get Glossy!

Have any comments on the stories in the issue? Simply leave them here (including the title of the article) and maybe see your comments in the issue itself! Go ahead, let us know what you think!

Dwele Swoons Crowd at The Shrine Chicago

2010-11-29T11:04:00.000-08:00

By: Iya Bakare

Cold temps were in the air outside, but hip hop neo-soul singer Dwele warmed our hearts at The Shrine Chicago on Saturday.

House deejays prepped the crowd with their mixes of old-school “feel good” music. With standing room only at the exclusive concert, Dwele graced the stage with his Detroit swagger and performed hits from his previous projects and his new CD, W.W.W. (W.ants W.orld W.omen). They included “Tainted Love” (his hit with Slum Village), “A Pimp’s Dream,” “I Think I Love You," “Flap Jacks” and others. With a masterful blend of jazz, R&B and hip hop, Dwele provided that old-school/new-school vibe that resonated with the audience, as we echoed the lyrics to his songs. He closed the concert when he joined the crowd as he jammed with us and sang "Find a Way."

Dwele’s concert was hosted by Zondra Hughes of M.O.O.D Lounge and WGCI-FM’s radio personality Leon Rogers.

Dwele Performs at The Shrine in Chicago--Thanksgiving Weekend

2010-11-23T09:41:00.000-08:00

By Iya Bakare

I’m thankful for many things this year, and one of them is for this event. Hip-hop soul artist Dwele returns to his Midwestern roots and finds his way to Chicago for an exclusive concert at The Shrine Chicago on Saturday, Nov.27. The Detroit native hip-hop emcee and soulful singer will perform hits from his earlier projects, in addition to songs from his latest CD, W.W.W. (W.ants W.orld W.omen) such as “What’s Not to Love” and “I Wanna.”

The Shrine Chicago (www.TheShrineChicago.com) opens its doors at 7 p.m., and the show starts at 8:30 p.m. Tickets are $20 in advance and are on sale now at www.ClubTix.net/theshrine. The Shrine is located at 2109 S. Wabash Ave. in the South Loop.

Zondra Hughes of “M.O.O.D. Lounge” will host the concert, along with the house music sounds from DJ Jay iLLa DJ Leonard Part Sixx to set the mood for the exclusive event, which is sponsored by Fase2Fase.com.

It’s not often you hear a perfect blend of hip-hop, soul and jazz fused into one sound. As a writer, producer, musician and singer, Dwele masters this art. Don’t miss out on this special night!

Tune in to the Glossy Blog next week to catch a recap of Dwele's performance at The Shrine, and check out the Jan/Feb issue of GlossMagazineOnline.com to read an exclusive interview with Dwele!

Sex On The First Date: Good Or Bad?

2010-11-22T08:43:00.000-08:00

By Jamenise Wilson

In today’s society, it’s common for men and women to engage in casual sex. It has become apart of a lifestyle for many; but does having sex on the first date ruin the chances of a male taking you seriously? Let’s think about that for a second…yes it does!

If you are seeking a fulfilling relationship from your male companion, jumping in the bed with him is not the way to go. This is for the women who are looking for a meaningful relationship. How do you expect a man to take you home to momma if he only sees you as a sex object and nothing more? How can you get mad at him when he calls you for sex if that is what the relationship was based on all the time? To end well you have to start well, and that means keeping the cookie jar closed until the time is right. If the mental aspect of the relationship is blossoming when the time is right, the sex will be better than ever.

Some ladies tend to take the chemistry aspect of the relationship and turn it into something more than it really is. Chemistry is nice to have, but it does not hold a relationship together in the long run. If we are talking long-term as far as relationships go, then we need to think about what factors we have in common and so on. With all these factors to consider, one would want to take the time and think about it before jumping in the bed even comes into play.

As women we go off of emotions and whether we like it or not, when we have sex, emotions get involved, but that is not always the case with men. Lust is always mistaken for love, and when you’re feelings are involved, why take the chance?

Having sex on the first date is not worth all the heartache and pain that it will bring in the long run. Taking things slow could be the best thing that ever happened for you and your relationship.

GMO Poll

Sex on a first date has been a debated topic since, well, forever. What do you think about getting “down” on the first night as Monica put it in her 1998 hit song “First Night.” Have you done it (so to speak) and if you have, what happened after? Do you agree with Jamenise – are emotions always a factor or can girls really just wanna have “fun” – so to speak?

Leave Your Comments HERE! Let's Talk About ... well ... Sex!

Jamenise’s Facts: Jamenise Wilson is a recent graduate of Tennessee State University. She enjoys writing poetry, urban fiction, and music. Jamenise also created the black Soap Opera “Ebony Heights.” Ebony Heights is posted every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday on the blog www.sincerelymissthang.com. She can be contacted at Jamenise@glossmagazineonline.com.

“For Colored Girls” ––Worthy of Viewing

2010-11-21T17:06:00.000-08:00

By Parker, C

Tyler’s Perry new movie “For Colored Girls,” opened in theaters across the country November 5, 2010. This film is a departure from Perry’s typical drama and romance films, which usually scratch the surface on a wide range of issues within an extended African American family. They also often feature his infamous, beloved, and sometimes hilarious, Madea character.

The film “For Colored Girls” is an adaptation of the play “For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide when the Rainbow Is Enuf,” written by poet Ntozake Shange. Written, directed and produced by Perry, it is also his first R-rated film. Based on Shange’s award winning stage play, the film has the difficult task of taking poetic words and turning them into a storyline. Tyler accomplishes this by adding male characters to the film––the original play consisted of only seven female characters.

The film addresses a series of “taboo” subjects within the African American community––from homosexuality and the recently written about down-low behavior of black gay men––to incest and molestation. The play was written in 1975 and appeared on Broadway in 1977. Therefore, there are probably generations of younger African Americans unaware of the play’s content. For those moviegoers who are unfamiliar with the play, if you’re expecting the typical Perry feel-good film, you will be disappointed. Madea is not in the “For Colored Girls” film. In fact, very little exist to laugh about in this film.

What’s missing is dialogue. The poetry spoken throughout the film begs for dialogue between characters, and not always the recital of one of the twenty poems from the original play. However, the film does get some parts right and perhaps we’ll see a trend in movies including more poetry. Or maybe, “For Colored Girls” will give a boost to poetry, like “Love Jones” gave a boost to spoken word.

The black ensemble cast of actresses and actors, including Janet Jackson, Loretta Devine, Phylicia Rashad, Kimberly Elise, Anika Noni Rose, Whoopi Goldberg, Macy Gray, Kerry Washington, Thandie Newton, Tessa Thompson, Omari Hardwick, Hill Harper, Michael Ealy, Khalil Kain and Richard Lawson, all give good performances but there are several outstanding, noteworthy performances. In particular, Loretta Devine, Thandie Newton, and Michael Ealy give strong, convincing performances of victims in denial of, hidden, accepted and ignored pain.

There’s online Oscar buzz surrounding this film. It’s been rumored that “For Colored Girls” might win Perry his first Oscar nomination. If so, then the performances by Devine, Newton, and Ealy are all worthy of Oscar nominations.

Warning: disclaimer ahead.

It should be noted this film may upset some moviegoers. There were not many dry eyes in the audience when I viewed the film. That said, if you are a survivor of physical abuse, molestation, or sexual abuse, some of the content––and in particular one scene––might be especially disturbing.

Love Your Self First, Inc. Hosts Annual Breast Cancer Fundraiser

2010-11-21T16:52:00.000-08:00

By Samantha Mitchell

Love Your Self First, Inc., founded by Kristi Dawson, hosted their annual Breast Cancer Fundraiser Saturday November 6, 2010, at Big City Swing in Chicago. This annual event is used as a tool to bring awareness to breast cancer, and also raises funds for non-profit cancer support group Helping Her Live, Inc

The evening began with a "Pink" Carpet/Meet and Greet where guests, media partners, and speakers took pictures, mingled, and did interviews. Next, various speakers gave educational and financial presentations, and the evening ended with an uplifting and heartfelt survival story from Breast Cancer survivor Dorothy Dahe. Dahe talked about her journey from her annual mammogram to surgery, to her spirituality and faith in God. "I believe that God wouldn't take me through anything I couldn't handle, and I am grateful that God chose me for this journey." The intimate crowd, which consisted of family, friends, cancer survivors, and media outlets, stood and gave Dahe a standing ovation for her touching story.

Keeping the good energy flowing, Gospel Singer Melinda Watts, winner of the 2008 “Gospel Dream Competition,” kept the crowd uplifted while performing two of her hit songs, "Happy" and "Walk In Your Purpose." Watts, diagnosed with Cervical Cancer in college, talked briefly about her cancer survival, singing career, and motherhood. Watts also founded a non-profit youth group, "Dreamgirls," which she calls "her baby." The group targets young girls ages 8 to 18-years-olds who need positive role models in their lives. Dreamgirls has been on tours in various cities, including: New Jersey, New York City, Cleveland and Miami. They will soon bring the tour to Chicago.

The night ended with two award recipients. One received the Pink Passion Award and the other received the Breast Cancer Survivor Award.

Founder and host Kristi Dawson, who's also a Cervical Cancer Survivor, expressed that she built her foundation on a promise that she made to her grandmother. "I promised my grandmother, who suffered from cancer, that no one else would suffer like she did––which inspired me to start Love Yourself First."

Guests enjoyed an array of Hors d'oeuvres and beverages, party music, and networking with media outlets such as: Action Magazine, Moody Radio, Flair TV, and GlossMagazineOnline.

For more information on Love Yourself First, Inc., contact Kristi Dawson at kristi.dawson@creativeimpactpr.com.